1) He was not clued in or stable due to killing his father. How could you not see that in his expressions / emotions and the movie had just shown numerous times how powerful the crossbow was... as in far more powerful than other blasters.

2) It didn't just happen. She touched Luke's/Vader's light saber and had the vision. She was told how to listen to the force. The trauma of being force mind raped by kylo ren all pushed her to begin to feel the force. Luke started the same way when he started to deflect laser shots in the melinnium falcon with helmet on or anakin as a boy and his reflexes during pod racing. No different. Lastly, kylo ren is no master. He's not 'properly trained'. That was evident in the movie more times than can be counted especially at the end when it is explicitly stated.

ya'll people are just not paying attention.

About the reason for Lukes exile, he probably considered he failled as a jedi master and that the world would be better off without him training ppl just for them to fall to the dark side, its not liek he went in exile out of fear of Kylo Ren.

Yes, I agree. But does he leaves just because Kylo falls? Movie strongly suggest Kylo did something terrible to Luke's foundation, which can be seen in Rey's flashback of Kylo standing (with what seems to be another group of people) next to a lot of bodies; which again means Kylo is no pushover when it comes to getting his hands into a fight.

1. He has just killed his father. Don't you think he wasn't exactly focused to see that coming?

2. There are some people who born force-sensitive. That's the case of Rey, it's not a knowledge, it's just in there and she started to fell it and use it in that Starkiller scape. And his fight with Kylo, he was obviously troubled, badly wounded (he barely keep himself on his feet while he was fighting), we've already seen Rey beating some asses in her first scenes in Kappu, so she's obviously a good fighter... And he's not properly trained. In fact, near the movie's end, Snoke said that he needs more training. So, wounded, troubled because he can't use the dark side of the Force properly and he has just killed his father, and with the planet colapsing and against a Force sensitive person. No, it doesn't seem weird to me that she managed to beat him. 

I pretty much agree with everything the op said ... maybe taking it too far to say it was worse than the prequels, but yeah it was pretty disgusting.

Credit where credit is due, I did enjoy Harrision Ford's performance (he basically carries the 2nd act), and I liked the idea of Finn's character as a traitor stormtrooper it was one of the few original ideas in the film (ok so it wasn't 100% original as it happened in the expanded universe with other characters but still). Also, Finn was at least presented as a likable character with flaws and talents that make sense considering his upbringing ... unlike godmode Rey that is a master in piloting, engineering, lightsaber duels, the use of the force and being a world class athlete that can climb / scale anything all without any training and while spending her life as an orphan scrapping old ships for bread rations...

Don't get me started on Supreme Leader Snookie (as I call him). I have seen Scooby Doo villains with more menace than whatever that thing was supposed to be. That name alone ... I never thought I would hear a sith name more silly than Count Dooku, but Abrams topped it.

This probably gona be adressed in Ep 8, but I believe Kylo went rogue, probably converted a few other jedi, came back some years later when luke wasnt around or under a false pretext to rejoin the order and murdered Lukes aprentices.

It hurt me. Not a 0/5 or whatever and I'm going to give it multiple viewings but it really made some story choices that I just don't get. Some crazy coincidences, and...I don't know. It lacks a soul.  Had a few moments of awesome but a whole lot of cringeworthy fanservice and wtf moments.

Music and alien designs are disappointing, too. Like it had the fun in dialog that the prequels were missing but missing imagination in other areas. I Lol'd more than once and the action was good but I left feeling pretty hollow when all was said and done.

Nope, it doesn't suck. In fact, it's awesome.

Carry on people.

OP Try watching A New Hope again and think about the criticism you've made about The Force Awakens. You'll find that when introducing a new saga, that's intended to run across multiple films/episodes, the writers do not reveal all unnecessary back story just for the sake of it straight way. Just as is the case with the originals, more will come - be patient and enjoy it for what it is, the brilliant rebooting of an awesome story.

Dude... Kylo Ren just killed his dad. It's perfectly explainable why he didn't dodge this one shot.