JWeinCom said:
Ljink96 said:
JWeinCom said:
Ljink96 said: Anti Abortion and here's why: Firstly, I find that I can't tell someone else what to do with their life. I can't. That's my Pro Abortion side. But I was in a debate once and I was Anti Abortion, full on because you're not giving someone a chance at life. Yes, that embryo or cell of blood, whatever stage it is in...is an aspiring and growing human being. Somebody gave you a chance, the best that you can do is give them a chance or not have the baby. "But nobody will take care of him/her as I would"...well damn... that makes no sense. If you want to have him/her killed...does that even infer that you would even take care of him/her? I've heard it all and it all is BS. Of course, that's my opinion. Oh, and one more thing: the child disability thing. I understand that someone might not want to bring a child into this world with no chance of living. Then again, there are religious folks(which I am) that will say that you don't know what God can do for that child. AKA, a miracle. But unlike strict religious types, I won't continually force that on you. It's your choice. I don't find it to be the right choice but it's yours to make. I guess, I have mixed feelings about it. Overall, I just feel that definitely, any child that hasn't been predetermined to have an issue, deserves a chance to see and experience this beautiful world of ours. How selfish it would be to do otherwise. |
"But what if I was raped"? I don't wanna be reminded of the baby and I want to kill it instead... That to me is a bunch of BS. Have the child, send him/her to be adopted.
So... let's say you were just raped. Now you have a baby in your stomach. For nine months you're going to have a little thing kicking around in your stomach for nine months. You're going to have to go through an incredibly painful process, your body will be irreperably changed (poor vagina), a process which actually can be lethal (particularly depending on where you are, but even in the US abortion is many times safer than live birth). If you are in school or in work, this process will inevitably disrupt what you are doing in life. Depending on what your career path is, it may derail it completely.
People who may not be aware that you've been raped may judge you, or may even good naturedly ask who the father is, so once again you can be reminded that you've been raped. Your lovelife will be put on hold for a year because most people don't want a pregnant chick (although, gotta be honest, I'm sort of into it. TMI right?)
And after you've gone through this process, you'll have the stigma of having given a child up for adoption, and there is always the chance that this will lead to legal issues with the rapist over custody (yeah this has happened).
I feel like you haven't fully thought about this issue from the perspective of a woman.
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I feel that, there are always 2 sides to a story. I understand that women may be damaged by being raped. I was in a debate as I said, remember? But, one side is never more justifiable in this issue. There are no definitions or anything to apply to this issue. I respect your thoughts. I understand the trials and troubles that a woman may face. It isn't fun and it is taxing and somewhat embarassing.(I learned during the debate). I stand by my opinion and may you stand by yours. But never call someone out on their opinions, even if they don't make sense to you, because after all, it's an opinion.
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Oh no, we can always call people out on their opinions. Opinions can and should be challenged, because that's how we learn more and are exposed to different ideas. If our opinions were never challenged, we'd live in a bubble.
I feel that you made a very oversimplified argument about abortion in rape cases, without fully conisidering the scope of the situation. I don't feel there is any justification for inflicting physical and mental pain on a woman who has already been violated.
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