I would classify marriage as "the pursuit of happiness", IMO.

Tho I also believe businesses who who do not wish to serve certain ppl be allowed to excersize their right to deny service for as long as they are not considered essential services.

That's correct because it is a privilege and privileges are exclusive and have the power to exclude. 

Threating gay people less or better than other members of a society is discrimination. Spare me the positive discrimination bullshit, which should also be Illegal. You claim marriage is a privilege for certain members of society, while the only thing you need is a partner and money. Accepting or better said not accepting gay marriage is discriminating and very hypocritical for so called free countries in which church and constitutional law are separated.

It isn't any different to threat gay people less than other ethicists like Muslims Jews Asians Women Black people White People et cetera be it on religious or personal ground, you simply don't have that privilege in Free Western countries. But in Russia and large parts of Asia and Africa you still can.

Yeah, that's a poor opener if you can't back it up by evidence.

At worst, that would mean convicts would loose their right to marry or even being marriied while in prison, but not rule out gay marriages in the slightest.

Eventually, social progression is going to leave you behind.

I have no problem with you on a personal level. I used to date a girl who had a gay father. He was a nice man and so was his partner. The problem was they, like many of their contemporaries, have become politically greedy. They assume rights that don't exist and they want to force their worldview on people who simply won't agree with them.

You have to fundamentally alter the teachings of the world's major religions or destroy these religions all together to accommodate this political utopia. This is partially been accomplished in Europe where Christianity has been forsaken and destroyed. It's happening in the USA right now and it's dividing the country in ways not seen since the civil war.

The best solution is don't ask don't tell.

It never ceases to surprise me how threatened some people are of others being treated equally.
It's like they can't be happy unless they are able to oppress others.

Gay couples are not privileged enough be allowed to get married? Weird view, mate.

"Kentucky: Our same-sex marriage ban isn't anti-gay because it applies to straight people, too"
This happened this week. Taking the moral highground and decide that certain people are less human than others, it's very cute. Why though? Is there any other reason apart from the old fairy tale, the "bible"?

Please, enlighten me. Why should gay people be shunned, hated and excluded? Please. Give me ONE legit reason.