I hate the challenge in the Souls games, but I can accept that not every game is made for me. There's room in the industry for a game that is genuinely difficult, and if making it easy is as simple as changing something in the game's settings, it can't really be considered a difficult game.
The whole charm of the Souls games, as I see it, is that they pummel you into submission and force you to become good at the game or die trying. That choice is only worthwhile if those are the only two options.