Regardless what side you're on, the whole 60fps for "feel of the game" is blown out of proportion. It's more noticeable visually than it is in how the game controls.
If they own an HDTV, the average person is going to have 70ms input lag before they even get to how much additional input lag is introduced with 30/60fps. This includes the additional input lag the console itself adds as well. The 16ms or 32ms amount which is introduced afterwards is marginal and really makes little difference.
I wonder what tv everyone at this forum uses, because it'd be really ironic the people bashing a console or a game, etc, for running at 30fps and mentioning how 60fps gives such a better feel, when come to find out, they're using an HDTV that has 50ms input lag(30-50ms is the average now days. Few large HDTVs are 17-29.) The only people who can really talk are those that go out of their way to play games on monitors(8ms) or tvs that have 17-19ms input lag.