1) It doesn't matter, because dropped frames means nothing in and of itself. That's undebatable because you claim the PS3 is not comparable to the PSP (much stronger), yet the PS3 also drops frames. Let's just close this one here it's pretty clear that dropped frames is not strong enough an argument as is.
2) I didn't mistake your statement, I just don't understand you, you're super unclear, vague and ambiguous. If you could be more clear maybe we'd understand each other. Your own words:
"the 3DS is mostly failing to win out the PSP in every category easily since it's the more powerful machine."
-> What is the more powerful machine, the PSP or the 3DS?
-> is the 3DS failing to beat the PSP in every category yes or no?
" The 3DS could perform better in graphics than the PSP but it's just that it didn't win in the draw distance category since it revelations had lower draw distance than alot of PSP games."
How could 3DS perform better in graphics if the PSP is the more powerful machine?
3) It's invalid, they are two very different technologies your benchmarks say nothing other than "3D causes a loss of performance" but it doesn't give any sense of relative loss of performance to regular 2D on the 3DS. I'm dropping this one whether you are or not. Your proof was inadequate.