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Runescape EOC or Runescape Classic 2007?

 

EDIT: I just finished reading the thread. Classic huh. Your girlfriend should have forgiven you. What a bitch. My friends and I just started playing RS again with classic and it's super fun! =) Also I see you like Twisted Fate.



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NotStan said:

So, peeps are probably tired of these boring ol' break up threads. Well tough shit. I just pretty much broke up with my girlfriend, she just seemed cold and distant the last few days, after we had an argument and everything seemed fine, well as much as I thought that, apparently it was not. When I confronted her about it, she said nothing, everything's okay. And it happens every fucking time, I ask her what's wrong and she says nothing, then everything comes up over text, so as you can imagine same shit happens every time we have an argument, everything is okay in person even though she acts cold and distant then BAM over text after I leave that I am a scumbag boyfriend etc. I do not deny the fact that I was a scumbag boyfriend on that occassion, I mean for fucks sake, I skimped out of bed to stay up all night to play Runescape for god sake. I admit my mistake, and therefore have quit it, so that counts as an attempt to rempent right? When there are people who kill others, but as long as they confess its kay.

So yeah, I packed my shit, went out and left. But the main problem is: this was my first relationship, and unfortunately I went all in in terms of feelings, so in the end, here I am, heartbroken and fucked up with a bottle of whisky, so I was wondering, what is your best way to deal with a breakup and why? Bitches aside of course, because I really do not feel like bitches at all at the moment.

I feel for ya man, it's pretty painful and there are a bunch of sleepless nights.

Don't be that guy who gets depressed after a breakup. Go to the gym, focus on yourself, flirt, and enjoy yourself.

But yeah, as our friend dude, stop playing mmos.



Best thing is to step back and take control. You have control of yourself so do it. You may be upset now but there is 6.4 billion people in this world. You will find someone else and forget about her. Right now just learn from your mistakes and move on. Alcohol is not the answer obviously. In fact it is a depressant and will only make it worst.

Honestly anytime I'm upset i do one of two things. i either practice lines or I hit the weights. Self improvement in this case. Focus your anger or disappointment or whatever on something else. Still at the end of the day you are the only person controlling your life so do something about it. One thing is for certain though do NOT go back to her begging or pleading though. That is a no go.

If you want to keep your mind off of her just pick up some kind of hobby though that doesnt relate to you sitting on your butt. Get out and flirt and do things besides sitting in your room crying or playing games. Hang out with friends in real life, just anything besides sitting there.




       

What you do is take time for yourself. Best thing to do is to put away or get rid of anything that reminds you of her. Un-friend her from your facebook, delete her number, etc... Take some time for yourself, hang out with friends, do things you enjoy doing. Workout, pick up a new hobby, concentrate on yourself, and start dating when you are ready.

From what I read, it seems like you handle things wrong at times. Not saying you were at fault for the all problems in the relationship though.



I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 months ago after 6 months together. My best advice is to kick it with friends and relish the single life until you get naturally comfortable with the concept of dating again. Also, avoid contact with your ex unless she contacts you. Then be (reasonably) kind and gentle to her without giving into any pressure to get back together. And if you see any hints of Overly Attached Girlfriend, RUN!



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AbbathTheGrim said:
MMOs before Hoes


haha,that makes me laugh



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NotStan said:

So, peeps are probably tired of these boring ol' break up threads. Well tough shit. I just pretty much broke up with my girlfriend, she just seemed cold and distant the last few days, after we had an argument and everything seemed fine, well as much as I thought that, apparently it was not. When I confronted her about it, she said nothing, everything's okay. And it happens every fucking time, I ask her what's wrong and she says nothing, then everything comes up over text, so as you can imagine same shit happens every time we have an argument, everything is okay in person even though she acts cold and distant then BAM over text after I leave that I am a scumbag boyfriend etc. I do not deny the fact that I was a scumbag boyfriend on that occassion, I mean for fucks sake, I skimped out of bed to stay up all night to play Runescape for god sake. I admit my mistake, and therefore have quit it, so that counts as an attempt to rempent right? When there are people who kill others, but as long as they confess its kay.

So yeah, I packed my shit, went out and left. But the main problem is: this was my first relationship, and unfortunately I went all in in terms of feelings, so in the end, here I am, heartbroken and fucked up with a bottle of whisky, so I was wondering, what is your best way to deal with a breakup and why? Bitches aside of course, because I really do not feel like bitches at all at the moment.

1) Remove all evidence of her from your life
2) Engross yourself into something else. Absorb yourself into games, and incase you don't already, get down to a gym - endorphins + physical improvement always helps
3) Get a break somewhere scenic where it's just you and a view. Whether it's Bournemouth or Berlin, whever works for you. 
4) Go clubbing with some mates. Loud decent music + booze + mates = good time. Plus if chicks hit on you, it does help to get over the omg alone feeling.



Everyone is different, but when I had relationship issues in the past I did what I enjoyed most, and one of those things is .. well .. video games. It kept me from thinking of things too negatively. It was not a complete substitute, however. And I did not feel better overnight, but it was a good distraction. Feeling sorry for yourself is not going to make things better (so please avoid that trap). If you have close friends you can chill with maybe you should hang with them for a bit too. I suggest playing vgames lite and doing other thing with friends of personal building if you can.

If I were you I'd avoid having serious contact with chicks for a bit too. If you get seriously invested you might confuse your feelings if you got close to another girl too soon. That won't be good for anybody involved.

Don't feel too bad though. These things happen. I remember my first girlfriend many years ago. I told myself she would be my first and last and I never wanted anybody else. I've had 4 girlfriends and too many flings to count since then lol Don't get hung up over your first relationship. Personally, I find we should explore other people to learn what we want in the process (it's not always obvious). It is the only way. Most people who settle in their first relationships told me they regretted it. So perhaps, it was for the best (you may not see it that way now, but maybe in time you will).



 

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zuvuyeay said:
AbbathTheGrim said:
MMOs before Hoes


haha,that makes me laugh





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