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M.U.G.E.N said:
Time...it heals everything. You won't be over the whole thing right away but give yourself some time.

And no matter what..DO NOT jump into another relationship while you are on the rebound


Definitely the best advice in the thread. For the time being, go see your mates and spend time with them. Make sure your not alone for too long or you might break down.



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I'll tell you one thing: you've been giving shit advices. It's not that they're BAD advecise, but none of us knows you and we can't therefore tell you what to do to feel better. That's something you have to find out youself.

Drink a shit load of whisky and cry yourself to sleep at night - if that's what you have to do. Or hit the gym, or fuck every girl you see, or game until your thumbs fall off. What you have to do is something for you to find out. All we can do is tell you what WE usually do. You don't have to unfriend her on Facebook: I'm friends with almost every single one of my exes there.

I'll just give you one piece of advice what NOT to do: don't be destructive. Don't get into unneccessery trouble or fights. Always take care of yourself! And remember, there's a lot of girls out there! My bet is that you'll have your heart broken at least once or twice again, but don't let that deter or stop you! Enjoy all the love you can as much as you can for as long as you can.



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I know about the whole removing stuff that reminds you of her, but jesus man. Mum made pancakes today and I couldn't stare at them seeing as they were my ex's favourites. Talk about nostalgia, can't even eat pancakes. Removed all the stuff. Alcohol is really no way to go tbh, and I've moved all the gifts etc to a box and stashed it away.

Although I would really like a gamer chick, am not sure if that would be ideal for me at the same time, I see gaming as a separate activity that I can do to take some time off, but at the same time if she shares such a big interest with me, then it would be a very big advantage :|, but don't think am anywhere near the stage yet where I would contemplate another relationship, seeing as I would prefer something long term rather than a quick shag. Yes I am a woman in that respect.



Disconnect and self destruct, one bullet a time.

Focus your rage on something like a pillow, punching bag, Cod nerds, etc. Just do not do anything stupid. When you are at the sad point, cry in the mirror. I feel uncomfortable looking at myself cry and I end saying its dumb and stop :O. Slowly reassert yourself to the world.

My random advice :P.



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Don't go drinking alcohol, it doesn't solve anything.

Binge on drugs instead.



NotStan said:
I know about the whole removing stuff that reminds you of her, but jesus man. Mum made pancakes today and I couldn't stare at them seeing as they were my ex's favourites. Talk about nostalgia, can't even eat pancakes. Removed all the stuff. Alcohol is really no way to go tbh, and I've moved all the gifts etc to a box and stashed it away.

Although I would really like a gamer chick, am not sure if that would be ideal for me at the same time, I see gaming as a separate activity that I can do to take some time off, but at the same time if she shares such a big interest with me, then it would be a very big advantage :|, but don't think am anywhere near the stage yet where I would contemplate another relationship, seeing as I would prefer something long term rather than a quick shag. Yes I am a woman in that respect.

no you not a woman in that respect, why is it a wrong thing for a guy to want something serious? it isnt.

anyways dude my advice, and i dont really mean to be rude, but just man up. i know its sucks and all that, but its not the end of the world, its not the end of your life and its not the end of your happiness. man up, realize all that, and start moving on, it takes time, but you will get there. 



Scotch and strip clubs if you have the coin.

But if you want to do something constructive; join a boxing club. Learn how to focus and vent at the same time while getting into shape.

If you want the motherly advice, it's just going to take time. Doesn't help, but it is the truth.



I still don't quite get it.

Is the PC in the same room as the bed ? If so I'd hate that too, but that is hardly the reason for a breakup.



Grow a beard, spend the weekend watching rocky and rambo, then get a gym membership and go jogging to eye of the tiger, if you still have her on a social website e.g. facebook/twitter, then update happy status's, but make it subtle, you want her to think your lifes normal, not like your faking your lifes amazing.

Make sure you stay with your friends as long as you can, solitude can lead to you calling her at 2 in the morning crying and drunk. They can keep you from doing anything daft. Keep yourself busy (even though you wont want to do much)

Try to flirt with as many girls as possible (do it in a subtle way) in case theirs no chance for you to get back with your ex their your insurance. Since its your first relationship, use the mistakes you've made to learn from. Keep off her facebook/twitter page if she's playing the same "happy life" as you, if shes putting up emotional status's then either like it/retweet it.

Good luck bro, i've been where your at right now, someone better always turns up ;), even if you dont know it at the time.



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