Sounds like if they seek something different from what you desire to be like then you are naturally disconnected from them. What you need to do is find a girl that accepts you for what you want.

@bold, for me its kind of the opposite I am good at all those things BUT I can not start a conversation thus it never happens. Mostly the girls and definitely me are to stuck up to be the one to start the conversation.

Just stop watching so much porn. It will get your mind back into a normal gear.

While I don't know what you mean by getting a warm feeling around good looking men, I can share in your disinterest of women. Over the last year I've grown from really being attracted to women, to barely finding ANY of them remotely attractive. My standards for physical attraction have blown through the roof, and it's an issue. There's a greater underlying issue below all of this with general life depression and whatnot, but it's come to the point where I feel very disinterested in women and having sex.

So, I kind of know that feel, bro.

i can look at a male physique and think he looks good like Ryan Gosling or Joseph Gordon-Levitt, but i don want to get sexual with them, i can idealize the male body and wish i looked like that
you said you are turned off with the female physique so not sure :S
i say go with it and everything will work out for the better

Watch some gay porn.. don't resist it or think it's disgusting.. realize it's natural.. if you get hard off it.. and feel like wanting to be in the porn scene.. then you are a homosexual..

or..... ;)

Society tends to make this a black and white thing when it's generally not the case. I would contend that no two people are EXACTLY alike in terms of what/who turns them on, the same way we all have different characteristics. I think a good many people are gay in some minor form, it's just a matter of what degree. In fact, I would argue that no one is clear cut, 100% straight. Notice how many chicks have claimed to make out with other chicks or at least admitted attraction to them? I think it's the same with guys, we're just more embarrassed because were worried about ruining our masculine image.

I have a legit visual enjoyment of watching cute animals. Does that mean I'm sexually attracted to them? Nope.

Something to think about :P

its possible absolutely!

Many people compare them to fitness models and try too workout to look like them its absolutely normal|

You are not gay you are just open minded, if i see a good looking man and if someone asks me i will say the truth "that guy is defenitely good looking" doesnt mean im gay or you or anyother just means we are open minded.

As for me everytime i see a hot girl i keep my eyes focused on her ASS haha

Oh and Women HOT Body >>>>>>>>>>>>>> Man Hot Body. By Miles.

This picture could help you tell:

@farsala. I also really have a hard time breaking the ice. I'm horrible at it. And I'm a terrible buzzkill IRL.

@wfz. Thanks for the support.

@leatherhat. That's my plan!

I really appreciate all the feedback guys. I am stuck. Will keep you posted on how this goes.