On a dating/ hook up app and had been flirting in a really crude sexual way with other people, what would you? I found out my bf has done that and as much as I love him and want to continue in the relationship I'm finding I real hard to trust him now. What would you guys do?? Therapy needed!

Talk to him. Set limits.

If you're significant other is posting pictures of themselves and flirting actively with other people on a dating site, then chances are you're not in the relationship you think you are or they're not getting what they need out of the relationship.

I'd start asking questions about the latter, and depending on the answers come to terms with the former.

There are trust and communication issues that need sorting out. You don't trust him at this point and he apparently doesn't trust you well enough to communicate his needs with you.

a). Be ready for an open relationship, and embrace the liberty and fun it provides.
b). Dump him.
c). Go postal, and kill everybody who comes in your way with a machete.

Does he know that you know about it? That probably the firt step, and then see how he reacts/what he says.

Don't waste your time, dump him. You are setting yourself up for more disappointment if you don't.

Hmmm before we judge we must see the pictures first... we may have a different view on naked...

You want to see him naked? O_o

You should prohibit him from making the Snow White sequel.

It's not a great situation to be in. I genuinely thought I had the perfect relationship and i now know I was wrong. He's told me himself he was naked. And the stuff he said to people was apparently very graphic. He says that he loves me and he wants to be with me and he doesn't know why he did it but I'm confused