Pemalite said:
Heavenly_King said:
Runa216 said:
Heavenly_King said:
I think he is right (not from a religious point), the fact of being gay, doesn't should be promoted, because being gay (male homosexual) occurs because of some genetic material to be absent in their Chromosomes while being conceived . And the other way that it occurs (in gays and lesbians) is that during childhood the person is a victim of certain experience that affect its natural "brain patterns", those experiences can be traumatic, or just because he/she hasn't develop a good self esteem is vulnerable to social pressure. So if you promote this "sexual option" you can make of this something normal, or something natural; when it is not by the reasons explained above. They should not be able to get married because they would most probably intend to adopt children. And those children having that kind of influence, will have the wrong perception of how things really work. Speaking on a Biological stand-point, homosexuality is not viable because the human race would extinguish. And If you try to fix that by cloning, there would not be genetic diversity, making of the population susceptible to a single, bacteria, virus or disease; having eventually the repercussion of human extinction. What I trying to say here is that being homosexual is not wrong because most religions say so, I am trying to say here is that from a social, genetic, biological point of view, it is just wrong; and MUST NOT be promoted or supported. Gay people deserve to be happy? YES; Gay people deserve respect? YES; Gay people should be offered with the same kind of opportunities for success?? YES; Gay people must not be offended for what they are? YES. Should Gay people try to make the whole world to understand their point of view on sexual preference ? NO, because it doesn't matter what they say, it is wrong.
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Please tell me you're joking.
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Nope, not joking, just stating facts. If you dont believe me, just search the web; or read a book about genetic sexual differentiation, or about "social involvement".
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Your idea would hold true if it wasn't for the fact that there isn't a common link between how a child grows up and the environment they are in and homosexuality. Regardless if you have a father figure or not, a nice normal loving family or a violent one what colour your parents hair is... If you have siblings or you are an only child... There is a chance for someone to be gay.
As for adoption and marriage. Marriage is fine. Gay and lesbians are the same as everyone else. - The world isn't suddenly going to be filled with rainbows with men holding hands whilst frollocking in a field of daisy's. Life will go on like it has for millions of years.
Adoption is a tricky thing, most people claim that having gay parents will affect the child negatively.
Well. Straight people aren't perfect at raising children either. - I've seen straight parents who were Physically and Verbally abusive towards there children, I've seen straight parents kick there child out of home, I've seen straight parents raise there children in a dump, I've seen straight parents do some bad things and end up in jail. You can't tell me that a loving normal gay relationship is going to be any worst than that.
So instead of complaining and worrying how gays and lesbians will effect the world and society in general... Hows about you start fixing the problems in your own backyard first before targeting a minorit
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I concur with your point, but the topic was just about Homosexual people, that is why I didnt write about Heterosexuals.
Heterosexual parents have probabilities to be good parents or not, affecting the kid´s childhood in a bad or possitive way; making the kid into a civilzed human being with an adecuatte moral, with good sense of the enviroment that surrounds him; or a damn parasite that wont contribute with the society and will disrupt it; or something in the middle lol.
Now you have Homosexual parents. They as well as having the probabilities of being good or bad parents, just like heterosexuals, they have another variant in the equation; that will most probably change the kid perception of reality.
No one is perfect, but if the worst situation is about to happen, I ask you. In order to have a kid to develop in good, with an adecuate sense of social interaction and repercution (and having in mind the future of the species lol XD); which kind of parents would you choose to raise a kid (remember that both kind have the same probability of being good and bad)???
So in resume even though there are some bad hetersexual parents, that make bad thing to their kids (JUST WRONG); there are also good and caring parents. Allowing gay marriage and adoption; will make that as well as having to only fix 1 problem, you will have to fix 2.