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elticker said:
brendude13 said:
elticker said:
kevin the wiiite said:
This topic is pointless. Its a religious issue, and the differences between circumcised and uncircumcised men are minimal enough both medically and in terms of sexual pleasure that they aren't quantifiable. Plus, how is it possible to know that it doesn't feel as good circumcised if almost everyone has it done as a baby? It's not mutilation because it doesn't "degrade the appearance or function of any living body," as per wikipedia.

Female genital cutting is practiced in Middle Eastern and African countries, generally Muslim, as a way of exerting male dominance in a sexual relationship and is expressly designed to remove pleasure from sex. That is mutilation. Case closed.



this is bullshit and you are bullshit. sry i am angry cause you are saying something without proof and insulting me as a muslim. i know my religion and in no way is there a line in the qoran or sharia which says we are supposed or even hints to circumsing women, it's outlawed in islam. In islam everything is allowed except anal sex and we are supposed to pleasure women in sex so how the fuck does islam say that and then says circumsize your women. please make sure you post remotely accurate info.

There isn't a line in the Qoran that tells Muslims to blow infidels up either, but some Muslims still do it.

It's the same principle here, I have heard about this happening, they probably use their religion as an excuse to carry out female circumsicion.

you do know that it is illegal to do female circumcision over here, and is also taboo in religion. actually come to think about it if anyone actaully did that there would be alot of media coverage and trail. You associate the circumcision being by some uneducated african proabably somewhere  in kenya or niroubi with him doing it for islam when they actually have tribal ritauls for that and has nothing to do with islam. You know thats like associating rape and child molestation with christains because of there priests.

It has nothing to do with islam and is a sin in islam to do that end of story. why they do it is nothing associated with islam.they can't use it even slightly as an excuse.

also the comment about middle eastern countries, i know that in any arab speaking country it is not allowed maybe afghanistan (i heard they do terrible stuff to women over there)?

also blowing up to kill innocent people(no armed) is a sin and the actual act is as you commit suicide in it which = automatic ticket to hell.

dam bin laden and his friends along with the american media fucked up how islam looks to an outsider

I know it isn't linked to Islam, and I'm not talking about the Middle East here, I'm talking about African Muslims. They used their religion as a defense so they can justify what they are doing, despite it having nothing to do with their religion at all. It probably is a tribal ritual, I know that it has nothing to do with Islam.

Religion is a sensitive thing, if you associate something like female circumcision with religion then you can walk all over people.

And as you said, murder and suicide is a sin in Islam, yet extremists still associate it with their religion, they are complete hypocrite using religion as a defense.

And trust me, I know how you feel, sadly some Americans will lap up any shit Fox News tells them, other Western countries aren't that much better either. Luckily BBC news is ACTUALLY news, not propaganda.



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theprof00 said:
steverhcp02 said:
Well, being a nurse and witnessing dozens of circumcisions i can tell you a couple of things. Babies often times sleep through them. I understand it helps all the people saying this is inhumane to use words like mutilation and deform, but the fact of the matter if a baby IS crying its generally because we are restraining their legs and the confinement in a non "warm" way, like when we wrap in a blanket is what causes outbursts.

How do we solve these outbursts? A simple glucose and water solution on a pacifier puts the babies at ease, yes even with the "mutilation" in progress.

Using scary words like mutilation and disfigurement is easy and fun to sensationalize a very safe, very practical procedure.

To people saying "pulling back skin and washing is easy" It is, the same way as drinking 8 glasses of water a day, breathing deeply upright in bed is but people still get pneumonia and people still dont do these things every day because while its easy its not always done because as a society we pay attention to extremely apparent physical things which under your foreskin is not.

So yes, parents make an executive decision based on the information we give them of pros and cons. Cons being possible stimulation. Cons can include a possible mistake, just as any medical procedure. We are honest and as a medical profession who cares for countless readmmision of people not doing "easy" things, im completely in favor of a parent making an informed decision for their newborn BEFORE he can talk and rationalize or justify his choice which at that time would be traumatic to lose a part of your body, however small.

I hope all of you parents who want your kids to decide let them choose their meals, bedtimes and if they want to go to school. It must be very liberating for them to be in charge of such "serious" things at that age.

THe problem I have with the whole situation is really not about the hygeine or the mutilation for safety. It's a distinguishing mark used since before biblical times to tell one race or religious affiliate from another, and in general, just has very strong religious connotations.

Well i run into that too with jehovas witness. They could have terrible trauma and be bleeding out but simply wont accept blood or blood products. We educate, inform them of possible outcomes and respect their CHOICE. We provide comfort and do everything we can, some accept platelets, frozen plasma etc. becuase when youre actively dying its funny but 9 times out of 10 people want to live regardless of "religious policy"

the fact of the matter is its a choice, we have literature and we have facts to back up the benefits. we also have facts to back up the possible lack of benefits. Some people simply argue it doesnt make a difference in aids/cancer and thats fine. Most of the medical community agrees that it does far more good than having it not done, but we let the parents decide.

You can argue until youre blue in the face and rightfuly so about the pros or cons or evidence of lack of benefit etc. We know for a FACT a few things.

1) Foreskin has no benefit in protecting the penis throughout the life of a human being

2) Meticulous care of the glans penis is necessary throughout life.

3) Bacteria dwell in dark, warm moist places, this is under the foreskin

Now, i havent seen solid evidence about lack of pain, i do know first hand that babies have slept right through the procedure and they balled their eyes out after being restrained in their legs only to have fall right back to sleep before the snipping and sleep through it. Ive seen babies suck a pacifier right through the procedure away without flinching at the incision or clamping. I believe from what ive witnessed it causes no distress. Thats what i tell mothers and fathers who ask, and i say we dont know for sure. We say its not medically necessary but the potential outcomes from doing it are positive whereas there is a chance based on the facts we know about bacteria and the need to clean meticulously its difficult to prevent infections in some instances as the child grows and even in adulthood.

Anytime people are petitioning to remove the choice of something its scary. Anytime people who (liek the poster above talking about colostomy "bags" and rmeoving throats at birth etc) base this reasoning on a complete lack of education and more idealistic religious or unfounded bizarre analogies its scarier.

In the end its a choice, a choice thats not forced or pushed on parents. Its religiously driven, if we start replacing science and medicine based on religion we are in trouble.



brendude13 said:

I know it isn't linked to Islam, and I'm not talking about the Middle East here, I'm talking about African Muslims. They used their religion as a defense so they can justify what they are doing, despite it having nothing to do with their religion at all. It probably is a tribal ritual, I know that it has nothing to do with Islam.

Religion is a sensitive thing, if you associate something like female circumcision with religion then you can walk all over people.

And as you said, murder and suicide is a sin in Islam, yet extremists still associate it with their religion, they are complete hypocrite using religion as a defense.

And trust me, I know how you feel, sadly some Americans will lap up any shit Fox News tells them, other Western countries aren't that much better either. Luckily BBC news is ACTUALLY news, not propaganda.

thanks for understanding.



 

 

steverhcp02 said:
fordy said:
steverhcp02 said:
So yes, parents make an executive decision based on the information we give them of pros and cons. Cons being possible stimulation. Cons can include a possible mistake, just as any medical procedure. We are honest and as a medical profession who cares for countless readmmision of people not doing "easy" things, im completely in favor of a parent making an informed decision for their newborn BEFORE he can talk and rationalize or justify his choice which at that time would be traumatic to lose a part of your body, however small.

So you don't think a child gets to make a decision on something that will affect him his entire life? Very well, let's play with this:

You know, throat cancer is hard to get without a throat, so why not just rip those out at birth? After all, people can use those electronic voice boxes. Totally removes the risk of any chance there. How about bowel cancer huh? Kinda hard to get that if we tear out one's colon and leave them with colostomy bags. All in the name of NOT getting cancer, we have to cut ourselves up. See what kind of idiotic logic this is? You're willing to cut out PERFECTLY WORKING tissue in order to prevent the risk of something that is not likely to occur?


Once again, you sensationalize using an extreme case of removing vital organs for CANCERS. The removal of the foreskin limits the harboring of bacteria in dark, damp places. It needs to be cleaned daily if not more, it needs to be dried. It is something that has no effect on the function of the body by removing the foreskin. This isnt a cancer issue, its a comfort prophylacytic measure where the pros outweigh the cons. And again, its not being forced upon anyone.

The fact of the matter is people argueing against the right to CHOOSE to do this do so in very sensationlistic ways to try to either scare or justify their A) lack of knowledge and B) lack of argument. This isnt a fight to enforce this practice its a fight to preserve the right to this practice if one chooses. Those in favor of the former dont grasp the use of it as evidence by your analogy of removing vital organs to prevent cancer in an argument where we are removing essentially a skin tag to prevent the risk of infection.

The fact that youre comparing foreskin in functionality to the throat and bowels should have red flagged me to not even respond. but ive already typed and no sense in deleting it.

The foreskin has a function. It is still living tissue made to protect the glans. Since the foreskin also contains nerve endings, it also heightens stimulation. You're trying to tell me that the pros outweigh the cons, since when does severing of nerve endings on one's junk EVER have a pro that outweighs it.

You're being over dramatic about the care of such things too. There are plenty of intact males who do not clean regularly and still have had little to no problem whatsoever. It's been part of humans for thousands of years, and the way you speak, if you miss one day of cleaning, it will shrivel up and fall off.

I honestly think that you need to do a bit of research yourself. You mention lack of knowledge, and you're trying to justify your argument with ethos, in your case, saying you know best because you work in the medical industry. Give me a logical explanation of WHY even minimalistic maintenance is not sufficient enough to warrant a procedure that's potentially risky and usually debilitating to one's sensation.



steverhcp02 said:

Well i run into that too with jehovas witness. They could have terrible trauma and be bleeding out but simply wont accept blood or blood products. We educate, inform them of possible outcomes and respect their CHOICE. We provide comfort and do everything we can, some accept platelets, frozen plasma etc. becuase when youre actively dying its funny but 9 times out of 10 people want to live regardless of "religious policy"

the fact of the matter is its a choice, we have literature and we have facts to back up the benefits. we also have facts to back up the possible lack of benefits. Some people simply argue it doesnt make a difference in aids/cancer and thats fine. Most of the medical community agrees that it does far more good than having it not done, but we let the parents decide.

You can argue until youre blue in the face and rightfuly so about the pros or cons or evidence of lack of benefit etc. We know for a FACT a few things.

1) Foreskin has no benefit in protecting the penis throughout the life of a human being

2) Meticulous care of the glans penis is necessary throughout life.

3) Bacteria dwell in dark, warm moist places, this is under the foreskin

Now, i havent seen solid evidence about lack of pain, i do know first hand that babies have slept right through the procedure and they balled their eyes out after being restrained in their legs only to have fall right back to sleep before the snipping and sleep through it. Ive seen babies suck a pacifier right through the procedure away without flinching at the incision or clamping. I believe from what ive witnessed it causes no distress. Thats what i tell mothers and fathers who ask, and i say we dont know for sure. We say its not medically necessary but the potential outcomes from doing it are positive whereas there is a chance based on the facts we know about bacteria and the need to clean meticulously its difficult to prevent infections in some instances as the child grows and even in adulthood.

Anytime people are petitioning to remove the choice of something its scary. Anytime people who (liek the poster above talking about colostomy "bags" and rmeoving throats at birth etc) base this reasoning on a complete lack of education and more idealistic religious or unfounded bizarre analogies its scarier.

In the end its a choice, a choice thats not forced or pushed on parents. Its religiously driven, if we start replacing science and medicine based on religion we are in trouble.

sorry i can't do anything but laugh i find you to have a funny way of replying :). removing throats at birth rofl.





 

 

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theprof00 said:

EDIT: I just feel like it's shoehorned onto this idea of cleanliness when really, either way, there is no strong difference.


And it most certainly has. To my knowledge theres no scientific proof of it "for sure" lowering the risk of cancer. But as i said in my previous post, we know for a fact certain things about why the procedure is beneficial. If parents are hesitant we do NOT do it. We will absolutley not do any medical procedure without the parents (or patient in other situations) verbalizing an understanding and why they want it done. Its not like we go in their with a debate team to convince them or anything.

We explain theres no need to be alarmed or scared if they choose to not have it done, just they must meticulously educate their child on the importance of cleanliness after intercourse, drying after bathing, washing daily, checking to make sure its been cleaned thoroughly....in the end these are the facts and in the end its usually done because while theres no factual concrete evidence of preventing or limiting cancer, we know having the foreskin removed limits the possibility of infection and essentially is easier to maintain that part of the body.

The idea behind it is like anything though. I could go 2 years without washing my hands after going to the bathroom and never get sick. But wash meticulously and end up gettign sick. We just make our decisions and information based on the facts: bacteria liek these places and gather there, its not easily visible an dmust be maintained because of this and removing or keeping is a moot point as theres no harm to the function of the body keeping or cutting. we stress it doesnt mean they will get an infection but we offer them the choice to prophylacticly limit the risk potential. thats all. And again, its a choice, not sure why people feel the need to force religious or social beliefs on people for no reason other than their egos.



People should be able to choose if they want their foreskin cut off not be forced to get it cut as a baby..



elticker said:
steverhcp02 said:

Well i run into that too with jehovas witness. They could have terrible trauma and be bleeding out but simply wont accept blood or blood products. We educate, inform them of possible outcomes and respect their CHOICE. We provide comfort and do everything we can, some accept platelets, frozen plasma etc. becuase when youre actively dying its funny but 9 times out of 10 people want to live regardless of "religious policy"

the fact of the matter is its a choice, we have literature and we have facts to back up the benefits. we also have facts to back up the possible lack of benefits. Some people simply argue it doesnt make a difference in aids/cancer and thats fine. Most of the medical community agrees that it does far more good than having it not done, but we let the parents decide.

You can argue until youre blue in the face and rightfuly so about the pros or cons or evidence of lack of benefit etc. We know for a FACT a few things.

1) Foreskin has no benefit in protecting the penis throughout the life of a human being

2) Meticulous care of the glans penis is necessary throughout life.

3) Bacteria dwell in dark, warm moist places, this is under the foreskin

Now, i havent seen solid evidence about lack of pain, i do know first hand that babies have slept right through the procedure and they balled their eyes out after being restrained in their legs only to have fall right back to sleep before the snipping and sleep through it. Ive seen babies suck a pacifier right through the procedure away without flinching at the incision or clamping. I believe from what ive witnessed it causes no distress. Thats what i tell mothers and fathers who ask, and i say we dont know for sure. We say its not medically necessary but the potential outcomes from doing it are positive whereas there is a chance based on the facts we know about bacteria and the need to clean meticulously its difficult to prevent infections in some instances as the child grows and even in adulthood.

Anytime people are petitioning to remove the choice of something its scary. Anytime people who (liek the poster above talking about colostomy "bags" and rmeoving throats at birth etc) base this reasoning on a complete lack of education and more idealistic religious or unfounded bizarre analogies its scarier.

In the end its a choice, a choice thats not forced or pushed on parents. Its religiously driven, if we start replacing science and medicine based on religion we are in trouble.

sorry i can't do anything but laugh i find you to have a funny way of replying :). removing throats at birth rofl.




Yeah almost as ridiculous as justifying an unnecessary procedure that permanently affects the child for the rest of their life and calling it acceptable.



fordy said:
steverhcp02 said:
fordy said:
steverhcp02 said:
So yes, parents make an executive decision based on the information we give them of pros and cons. Cons being possible stimulation. Cons can include a possible mistake, just as any medical procedure. We are honest and as a medical profession who cares for countless readmmision of people not doing "easy" things, im completely in favor of a parent making an informed decision for their newborn BEFORE he can talk and rationalize or justify his choice which at that time would be traumatic to lose a part of your body, however small.

So you don't think a child gets to make a decision on something that will affect him his entire life? Very well, let's play with this:

You know, throat cancer is hard to get without a throat, so why not just rip those out at birth? After all, people can use those electronic voice boxes. Totally removes the risk of any chance there. How about bowel cancer huh? Kinda hard to get that if we tear out one's colon and leave them with colostomy bags. All in the name of NOT getting cancer, we have to cut ourselves up. See what kind of idiotic logic this is? You're willing to cut out PERFECTLY WORKING tissue in order to prevent the risk of something that is not likely to occur?


Once again, you sensationalize using an extreme case of removing vital organs for CANCERS. The removal of the foreskin limits the harboring of bacteria in dark, damp places. It needs to be cleaned daily if not more, it needs to be dried. It is something that has no effect on the function of the body by removing the foreskin. This isnt a cancer issue, its a comfort prophylacytic measure where the pros outweigh the cons. And again, its not being forced upon anyone.

The fact of the matter is people argueing against the right to CHOOSE to do this do so in very sensationlistic ways to try to either scare or justify their A) lack of knowledge and B) lack of argument. This isnt a fight to enforce this practice its a fight to preserve the right to this practice if one chooses. Those in favor of the former dont grasp the use of it as evidence by your analogy of removing vital organs to prevent cancer in an argument where we are removing essentially a skin tag to prevent the risk of infection.

The fact that youre comparing foreskin in functionality to the throat and bowels should have red flagged me to not even respond. but ive already typed and no sense in deleting it.

The foreskin has a function. It is still living tissue made to protect the glans. Since the foreskin also contains nerve endings, it also heightens stimulation. You're trying to tell me that the pros outweigh the cons, since when does severing of nerve endings on one's junk EVER have a pro that outweighs it.

You're being over dramatic about the care of such things too. There are plenty of intact males who do not clean regularly and still have had little to no problem whatsoever. It's been part of humans for thousands of years, and the way you speak, if you miss one day of cleaning, it will shrivel up and fall off.

I honestly think that you need to do a bit of research yourself. You mention lack of knowledge, and you're trying to justify your argument with ethos, in your case, saying you know best because you work in the medical industry. Give me a logical explanation of WHY even minimalistic maintenance is not sufficient enough to warrant a procedure that's potentially risky and usually debilitating to one's sensation.

I most certainly have not tried to make it sound like this is a necessity. In fact ive said multiple times it isnt. If the best reasoning you have is "people have done it for thousands of years" then youve got nothing. Go find me medical documentation from the 1920's. Let alone 3000 years ago, you ahve no idea the prevalence of glans penis infection, irritation, transferring of infection etc.How many babies died of PKU being not diagnosed, oh but they didnt do it 3000 years ago so we shouldnt do that, right? What about eye infections from the vaginal canal at birth before antibiotic ointment was invented to use after birth? How many deaths? You dont know? Thats right you dont know how many men from 3000 years ago has infections, or passed on infections without knowing.

Youre ignoring the advancment of our knowledge of bacteria, fuck antibiotics are less than 90 years old, yet youre content with simply doing things "like they did 3000 years ago"?

Im not saying i know more than everyone argueing in favor of forcing people to follow nothign more than ideology (but i am saying i know far more than you) but the fact is the only reason people are forcing this (or i should say the reasoning they can verbalize) is not grounded in science.

The medical community knows its not necessary, thats why its a choice. we also give vitamin K injections, we also use erythromycin eye ointments after birth, we do PKU testing to ensure babies are receiving proper and accurate nutrition.....they didnt do that 3000 years ago because antibiots werent invented but do you know why? When a baby passes through the vaginal canal they can get gonorhhea or other STD's just simply from birth even if the mother doesnt have those diseases, it infects their eyes so we prophylactically give ointment.

If all you have is "people dont wash and they didnt get an infection" you absolutley lack the knowledge of not only preventative medicine but medicine in general. Nothign in life let alone medicine is black and white. There is failure, success and in between. People who never smoke, never worked with carcinogenic agents develop lung cancer in their 40's. Why? we dont know.

We see things we cant explain and we do the best to help people remian healthy and happy. By knowing what we know about bacteria and the covered glans penis we offer this service if parents want it. Thats all.

You know absolutley nothing about bacteria, colonization or how diseases work. You take a small (and probably made up) pool of adult males who rarely clean their glans penis and use it as a reason to not have this optional procedure done. Youre the kind of person who would vote for this, who would compare this to removing bowels and throats prophylactically. Unreal, and why i fucking hate 95% of the people who are allowed to vote on topics theyre painfully uneducated about.



steverhcp02 said:
theprof00 said:
 

EDIT: I just feel like it's shoehorned onto this idea of cleanliness when really, either way, there is no strong difference.


And it most certainly has. To my knowledge theres no scientific proof of it "for sure" lowering the risk of cancer. But as i said in my previous post, we know for a fact certain things about why the procedure is beneficial. If parents are hesitant we do NOT do it. We will absolutley not do any medical procedure without the parents (or patient in other situations) verbalizing an understanding and why they want it done. Its not like we go in their with a debate team to convince them or anything.

We explain theres no need to be alarmed or scared if they choose to not have it done, just they must meticulously educate their child on the importance of cleanliness after intercourse, drying after bathing, washing daily, checking to make sure its been cleaned thoroughly....in the end these are the facts and in the end its usually done because while theres no factual concrete evidence of preventing or limiting cancer, we know having the foreskin removed limits the possibility of infection and essentially is easier to maintain that part of the body.

The idea behind it is like anything though. I could go 2 years without washing my hands after going to the bathroom and never get sick. But wash meticulously and end up gettign sick. We just make our decisions and information based on the facts: bacteria liek these places and gather there, its not easily visible an dmust be maintained because of this and removing or keeping is a moot point as theres no harm to the function of the body keeping or cutting. we stress it doesnt mean they will get an infection but we offer them the choice to prophylacticly limit the risk potential. thats all. And again, its a choice, not sure why people feel the need to force religious or social beliefs on people for no reason other than their egos.

Yeah I understand the medical ideas behind it. The problem though, on the medical side, isn't the washing. THe problem is parents not giving a single fuck, not informing their kids, not taking responsibility because Americans are pussies when it comes to talking to their kids about sex. Additionally, given an environment where intact was more common, kids could inform each other through common experience and let each other know what to do. This is what it's like in foreign countries (well at least in France it is) where the procedure is uncommon. On the medical side, it's really just another case of treating the symptoms. And it's treating the symptoms of parental negligence by treating a cause.

On the religious side of things, it's an affront. There is a lot of propoganda out there fueled by religious groups that are pro-circumcision because they feel like circumcision is some kind of religious rite. There is a long sordid history with circumcision in religion. Many were cut at puberty to coincide with female menstruation. When circumcised peoples would conquer others, they would circumcise the defeated nation's peoples as a means of marking ownership. On the religious side, this is a hostile takeover, IMO.