Well, you're gonna die a hermit while humping a matress. Get a hoocker, and solve your issues boy!!!

Honestly I'm 22 and have never had a girl friend. Now sex goes against my religious beliefs prior to marriage. However I still think we are missing out even though I have not dated. I have asked five girls out each time getting shot down, mostly the lets be friends...man it sucks.

I also don't just ask any girl out. At the moment I'm in no rush to date, I am a bachelor. I like not having to impress a girl all the time though I do miss the idea of having a partner you can share your emotions with and date. However I have not met a soul mate and to be honest even the girls in their early twenties just seem to immature to me.

Out of the five girls I asked out only one do I honestly still have respect for and wish I got to go out with. I guess I grew up and today am glad I didn't date the other four. So in the end yes your missing out, so am I so are other VGChartz members. But sex doesn't make a man, making out while apparently really fun doesn't make you a better person. A friends dad started dating for the first time in his thirties, he got married to his first girl friend and they are together to this day with three kids.

So just because your twenty one and haven't made out or had sex doesn't mean your not going to in the future. Theirs a time and place for everything and when you meet the right girl you'll ask her out and everything will work out in the end.

You sound like the total nerd that I expect most people in this site to be. I'm sorry but it is true.

So, if you are tired of Call of Duty and want something, mmm, graphically better and more challenging, it's never too late to begin hunting. If you are simply afraid of social pressure you can always lie man... unless you are the complete fat mysanthrope people could tell right away you're lying about not being a virgin and whatnot...

Anyways, don't forget that to never try is not to never fail. Unless you live in the USA, of course, where wooing a girl will get you sued or in jail due to sexual harassment. But there is still these relationship sites I guess. 

Oh, and try to play Persona 4 first of all if you don't know where to begin. It is good stuff to inject the idea of what human bonds are in your COD-spoiled brains.

@depression (Break Ups):

It hurts, sure. but if it was a good relationship, the time youve spent with her was worth it. (Depends, of course, what kind of guy you actually are, but for me, i dont want to forget my first one, even if thinking about it is still uncomfy.)

@ 'you need sex':

depends on the kind of guy. as for me, yes, its a nice gift that comes with a relationship, but laying in the arms of each other is something that makes me happier, because it feels.. warm. (btw, needed to stay alive is only food and water. not sex. ^^)

@topic:

Maybe your friends were just too... well, lets say overmotivated, and they've picked the wrong girls? because i think a good relationship, where you can say 'thats my soulmate! n' i love her!' just feels right., at least to me.

but on the other hand, it really IS hard to find a girl that is actually the right one for you. ive searched and searched the last years like an idiot, but there were so many just.. well.. 'broken' girls. took me 'til yesterday to get into a relationship with a GF that actually feels right. (And yes, they really come out of nowhere, when you let the thoughts about needing one away lol.)

the thing is; dont stress yourself. dont force yourself into something.if you feel uncomfortable in front of the girl you date, there could be something wrong already.  just continue living, including going out with your friends sometimes.

i had 6 at my first kiss... lool but my real first kiss was at 18 and relationships are a LOT of problems to you... Believe girls are some freaking crazy thing...

Be more crazy than her. Problem solved. :D .. but you're definetly right in some things. ^^ ..

People are funny enough taking this too seriously 1 direction or another.

It really depends on one thing.

1) Was there somebody you wanted to date who was single who you didn't ask out.

If the answer is no?  Then no.

If the answer is yes... probably.

I didn't date anyone till I was like 20 because most of the girls at my school weren't that attractive and the ones who were either had boyfriends or one of my friends had a serious crush on them.  Which, for me... I don't go there.

Heck, I turned down who asked me out on more then one occasion... my dad tried to convince me to go out with people "for practice" but I mean really, what's the point?  Just wait till you feel it and it's all good... and when you do go for it. 

Rejection heels faster then regret over something you'll never know.  Rejection gets better over time, while regret usually grows.

Try being 30 and never doing those things,It's not bye choice either. It's just that it's so hard to find a girl,when you look like frankenstein.

Well when your 30 you really should stop looking at girls and start looking at women... you perv... >_>

You know what I mean.