| Gnizmo said: @Khuutra |
The reason we're distrustful of women gamers is because of P_Chan!
Can you date girl that has alot of guys friends? | |||
| no, to many guys = problems | 105 | 46.46% | |
| yes, man up bitch! | 119 | 52.65% | |
| Total: | 224 | ||
| Gnizmo said: @Khuutra |
The reason we're distrustful of women gamers is because of P_Chan!
the_bloodwalker said:
A female friend of mine told me a long time ago that gentlemen have it hard these days. We place a lot of trust. She wasn't lying In many times you don't have to do anything to make her regret what she has done. Just let time do its thing is enough. I have witness it. In my case I couldn't wait. I was too hurt to let time work. I had to take action... I didn't do anything physical, all I did was something to move her heart and sweep her off her feet (it was my best work, actually. Romance as a weapon). Then when things were at the peak, I dropped the bomb, letting her know what it could have been if she weren't playing with me. Money spent on revenge : $12 |
Awesome!
"Life is but a gentle death. Fate is but a sickness that results in extinction and in the midst of all the uncertainty, lies resolve."
Kasz216 said:
Or, you know. She could be more interseted in stuff like Videogames, Sports and anime and therefore find it much easier to make friends along common interests with guys. |
A gamer chick with decent enough social skills shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women just like how a guy with enough social skills who happens to be a gamer shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women. And I doubt women with poor social skills are going to have many male friends either (unless you count douchebag guys who prey on women with low self-esteem for easy lays as "male friends". Every single one of those "nice guy" nerds out there who pretend to be a chick's friend in an attempt to work his way into the girl's pants is a dishonest douchebag). If a chick can't get along with other chicks but yet somehow has the social skills to get along with guys, something is up.
Gnizmo said:
PS. No offense to anyone in this thread, but any guy who uses words like "slut" or "whore" to a girls face is just dumb. You want sex yeah? With a vagina having creature of the same species? Well, unless that girl puts out then you are stuck in line at the spank bank. The more often you insult and demean a woman for expressing, or enjoying her sexuality the more likely she is to repress it, especially around you. Just something to think about. |
I mentioned that.
"Maybe she just knows many people. If that is the case, step up and be the only guy who isn't insecure about himself and go get her..."
I don't know everything (no one does), and I admit, it is harsh to say whore.
Today has been rough I apologize.I lost a friend of mine recently.
Leatherhat on July 6th, 2012 3pm. Vita sales:"3 mil for COD 2 mil for AC. Maybe more. " thehusbo on July 6th, 2012 5pm. Vita sales:"5 mil for COD 2.2 mil for AC."
| SaviorX said: I mentioned that. I don't know everything (no one does), and I admit, it is harsh to say whore. Today has been rough I apologize.I lost a friend of mine recently. |
Well I was trying to address the situation where she might not have a lot of friends though. I have seen plenty of faithful, nice girls with more male than female friends but not terribly social. Still, I will drop it here because I doubt we actually have anything to disagree about.
I understand the pain, believe me. Consider the whole thing forgotten as far as I am concerned. Sorry for the loss.
| loves2splooge said: A gamer chick with decent enough social skills shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women just like how a guy with enough social skills who happens to be a gamer shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women. And I doubt women with poor social skills are going to have many male friends either (unless you count douchebag guys who prey on women with low self-esteem for easy lays as "male friends". Every single one of those "nice guy" nerds out there who pretend to be a chick's friend in an attempt to work his way into the girl's pants is a dishonest douchebag). If a chick can't get along with other chicks but yet somehow has the social skills to get along with guys, something is up. |
Or she just doesn't know many women she has anything in common with. Almost all of my female friends hang around women more than men, like playing games to one degree or another, and are 100% faithful. The last bit is more based on the circles extreme reactions to cheating and thus we all are pretty much 100% faithful (although there is an extremely strange, and amazingly innocent exception to this rule). Never try to assume too much about a person. No one fits perfectly into a stereotype or any form of box. Pre-judging someone just never ends well.
Gnizmo said:
I understand the pain, believe me. Consider the whole thing forgotten as far as I am concerned. Sorry for the loss. |
I'll just say to the OP that nothing is universal. The girl's behavior has to be judged on a case by case basis because you cannot assume ANYTHING. Obviously, men think differently from women and you have to take that into account.
Ah, I sounded like a bigot before; I'm the farthest from it. Shit
Leatherhat on July 6th, 2012 3pm. Vita sales:"3 mil for COD 2 mil for AC. Maybe more. " thehusbo on July 6th, 2012 5pm. Vita sales:"5 mil for COD 2.2 mil for AC."
| SaviorX said: I'll just say to the OP that nothing is universal. The girl's behavior has to be judged on a case by case basis because you cannot assume ANYTHING. Obviously, men think differently from women and you have to take that into account. Ah, I sounded like a bigot before; I'm the farthest from it. Shit |
Anyone with half a heart will understand. I did some things far less kind when I lost my first friend. Extreme emotional reactions are to be expected, and forgiven. If you want I'll blank out my post, edit yours and the entire affair will be gone.
Gnizmo said:
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Unless a woman has poor social skills, I find it hard to believe they would have trouble finding commonalities with other women. I as a guy find it difficult to relate with women even on just a platonic level (unless she's a geek like me) but I have shitty social skills and I pretty much spend my freetime in front of a computer screen or a game console so it's no wonder I have difficulty relating to women. And like I said, women with poor social skills don't have many male friends either.
I know of one gamer chick online and she has more girlfriends than guy friends. There's no reason why a gamer chick can't get along with other women. There are gamer chicks I know in real life who have more guy friends than girlfriends but they are attention whores who think they are hot shit because the male:female gamer ratio is in their favour (and the gamer guys who drool over these girls and put them on a pedestal should be ashamed. There's nothing more sad than seeing a nerd with an ulterior motive being a "nice guy" to a girl). I have for the most part stayed away from gamer girls because of their reputation for being stuck up (the types that think they are god's gift to gamer guys simply because they are good looking and happen to be gamers). Though after meeting a gamer girl online that wasn't stuck up and seemed like a great person to converse with, I've changed my stance on that. But like I said, she has more girlfriends than guy friends. She's not an attention whore/tease like the many gamer girls I've seen (these are the types that have mostly guy friends).
| loves2splooge said: Unless a woman has poor social skills, I find it hard to believe they would have trouble finding commonalities with other women. |
What you believe is irrelevant. I have seen it first hand. You can spout off about how you know it must be this or that way based on whatever anecdotal evidence you like, but the bottom line is you are wrong. People are far, far too diverse to stereotype in any way, shape, or form.