Can you date girl that has alot of guys friends?

[loves2splooge]

Gnizmo said:

loves2splooge said:

A gamer chick with decent enough social skills shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women just like how a guy with enough social skills who happens to be a gamer shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women. And I doubt women with poor social skills are going to have many male friends either (unless you count douchebag guys who prey on women with low self-esteem for easy lays as "male friends". Every single one of those "nice guy" nerds out there who pretend to be a chick's friend in an attempt to work his way into the girl's pants is a dishonest douchebag). If a chick can't get along with other chicks but yet somehow has the social skills to get along with guys, something is up.

Or she just doesn't know many women she has anything in common with. Almost all of my female friends hang around women more than men, like playing games to one degree or another, and are 100% faithful. The last bit is more based on the circles extreme reactions to cheating and thus we all are pretty much 100% faithful (although there is an extremely strange, and amazingly innocent exception to this rule). Never try to assume too much about a person. No one fits perfectly into a stereotype or any form of box. Pre-judging someone just never ends well.

Unless a woman has poor social skills, I find it hard to believe they would have trouble finding commonalities with other women. I as a guy find it difficult to relate with women even on just a platonic level (unless she's a geek like me) but I have shitty social skills and I pretty much spend my freetime in front of a computer screen or a game console so it's no wonder I have difficulty relating to women. And like I said, women with poor social skills don't have many male friends either.

I know of one gamer chick online and she has more girlfriends than guy friends. There's no reason why a gamer chick can't get along with other women. There are gamer chicks I know in real life who have more guy friends than girlfriends but they are attention whores who think they are hot shit because the male:female gamer ratio is in their favour (and the gamer guys who drool over these girls and put them on a pedestal should be ashamed. There's nothing more sad than seeing a nerd with an ulterior motive being a "nice guy" to a girl). I have for the most part stayed away from gamer girls because of their reputation for being stuck up (the types that think they are god's gift to gamer guys simply because they are good looking and happen to be gamers). Though after meeting a gamer girl online that wasn't stuck up and seemed like a great person to converse with, I've changed my stance on that. But like I said, she has more girlfriends than guy friends. She's not an attention whore/tease like the many gamer girls I've seen (these are the types that have mostly guy friends).