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Kasz216 said:
loves2splooge said:

It's entirely possible for a guy to have a lasting purely-platonic close friendship with a female.

I think it's a potential redflag (that is if are seeking a long-term monagamous relationship) when a girl has mostly guy friends though. If a girl doesn't have many girlfriends but yet many guy friends, something is up. Like adriane said, girls who are like that tend to be attention whores and see potential female friends as threats. Or she may just simply be a slut. Women tend not to like promiscous women because they see promiscous women as competitive threats. When I think back to every girl I've known in my life who fit this profile, she was a slut. I'm willing to accept that there may be exceptions to the rule though. I just haven't seen any in real life yet.

Or, you know.  She could be more interseted in stuff like Videogames, Sports and anime and therefore find it much easier to make friends along common interests with guys.

A gamer chick with decent enough social skills shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women just like how a guy with enough social skills who happens to be a gamer shouldn't have trouble socializing with and befriending non-gamer women. And I doubt women with poor social skills are going to have many male friends either (unless you count douchebag guys who prey on women with low self-esteem for easy lays as "male friends". Every single one of those "nice guy" nerds out there who pretend to be a chick's friend in an attempt to work his way into the girl's pants is a dishonest douchebag). If a chick can't get along with other chicks but yet somehow has the social skills to get along with guys, something is up.