Aaaand since I got some cash and found a wii with wii fit and balance board ( smg which will be sold)  for 120 euros... if that isn't already sold, I am getting a wii also. :P Let's see.

Congratulations for joining the multiplatform complete club! We are the best of the best! (We are legion....blah blah)

LOL well that solves everything doesnt it? :P

It would have but the wii was sold. :P

:( 

Normally I'd say pick up the Wii for a whole better variety considering PS360 share so much in common. However, you take out the biggest (and best) option for games on Wii when you say you don't like Nintendo games. Personally, I don't see how anyone can honestly not enjoy a Nintendo IP, but that is neither here nor there. So, if that is really the case then its obvious a PS3 is your only real choice.

Then you can choose between the consoles depending on if you HAVE to play on live for certain friends or if the free PSN and your friends on there are just as good. Maybe drop XBLive at some point even. I guess that depends on your friends on both systems and if you really use all the other content XBLive offers. Personally the rest is free for me through the PS3 Browser, but that's just me.

Neither...

A Wii without Nintendo is useless and to own a PS3 and a 360 is useless to in my opinion.

PS3 based on what you have said....

Neither! I would recommend a Wii but it sounds like it wouldn't meet your gaming needs so I say get her to buy you a heap of games for your 360.

Unless you really love Mario and Zelda then go with PS3