This is exactly the point. I truly believe that Nintendo never in their wildest dreams thought that the Wii would be an industry leader. When you look at how they have handled the system from the beginning they made a very cheap console with marginal upgrades in graphical appearance basically dubbed a Gamecube with Motion controls.
I think Nintendo came into this generation with the mindset that they will be able to sell their games to core Nintendo owners regardless of what they put out there. If only for the newest iterations of Mario, Zelda, Metroid. And if they keep the costs of their system down, then it won't hurt them if they don't sell 50 million consoles.
Nintendo took a chance at motion controls because of this philosophy. They have a core fanbase that won't go away anytime soon. Plus they have always had the family friendly, kid friendly vibe about them. They were in a position that the market leader(Sony/PS2) and (Microsoft/Xbox/Direct competitor of the same pie Sony has) were not.
Nintendo was a trading card company for god's sakes. They copied and borrowed all the way to the top. It's almost comical watching Nintendo fanboys spin it like Nintendo invented Video games.








I don't think it was about getting owned, but how the CEO's and some game software publisher's were maybe waiting to see how Motion Controll's would do in the market before releasing the technology. Some CEO's may have Had reservation's on How well the technology could be used, at the Time the PS2 was not powerful enough to handle some of the application's they may have been wanting to do with it. than Tack on Some of the Ceo's would have looked at Past Attempts at it like Wireless controller's that were made in the Past. Than they put out a Eyetoy but developer's are reluctant to make software for it..


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