Well u said u grabbed her ass too and kissed her neck. Did u tongue kiss her too?

The only reason she didn't cheat was because you wouldn't let her! If you hadn't been the gentleman, then she (from what I've read) would most certainly have cheated on her boyfriend with you. If you two started dating somewhere down the line, what makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to YOU??

This girl is a bad apple. Save yourself the anguish.

^ This is exactly what I meant. So just be careful man, it shows she is WILLING to cheat if it tickles her fancy. If they do it to someone else there is a chance they will do the same to you.

♪O' Canada, our home and native land, true patriot love in all thy sons command.

With glowing hearts we see thee rise, The true north strong and free.♪

(I thought some patriotism would cheer you up as I have no valuable input for this situation. I hope it helps.)

anyways, i think you've received all the help you need the rest.. is up to you

You're doing the right thing, O-D-C.. if it was meant to be between the girl and you, she would break up with her boyfriend.

I haven't read any other posts besides the OP.

It feels good, doesn't it? Feeling so connected to somebody else feels so good. She makes you feel good inside. And it doesn't hurt that she's pretty hot. It makes you forget her shortcomings. It makes you feel good that even though she's with somebody else, she's probably in love with or is going to end up with you. And in all honesty, you'll probably never get over her.

And its going to hurt like hell when you leave her alone. Take my advice (or don't). Be her friend or leave her alone. If its more than physical and you've let your heart take over, no good will come from this.

And me....The awkward part is figuring out what to do when you see her again (Happened to me two months ago).

I'd agree that her loyalty doesn't match yours at all. You seem like a stand-up guy who's rules match my own.

Even if you did get her somehow, that doubt that she could turn on you at any moment will eat at you. I would never want to be the person who advised you to lose someone you love, but if this has been going on for some time and she hasn't left her boyfriend, I would ask her to choose.

Maybe if she does want you, your devotion will rub off on her. I'd rather have her and lose her than never try. Never trying kills me.

Patience, i say. If she's genuinely interested, continue cultivating what you have, and eventually she'll jump ship, unless you feel it's dragging on too long, in which case just go out with somebody else if you were so inclined, and see if that pushes her to further action (though i'm not advising that you use somebody else expressly for the purpose of pushing her hand, just that if you innocently dating somebody else happens to help, so much the better)

Just do what comes naturally, basically.