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@ Weedlab

Dating a super rich girl requires careful considerations. If you don't screw it up, then you could be set up for life. (if she's worth it of course).

Another thing. If my 20 y/o hottie cheated on me or started acting in ways which were purposely trying to undermine me or humiliate me or whatever, then I'd tell her to go fuck herself. I'm never, ever going to be someone's bitch. SOOO many men are. Fucking peasants.



spurgeonryan said:
Screw brains out. Got it! Thanks for the tip Dr. Grass.

Is that all you got?



I suspected you learned similar principles I did, and now I am totally sure That's why I asked about the asshole part in particular. When I was field testing I found being nice hardly ever worked. It's ironic since most of them respond positively to some form of negative behavior (more like good with a hint of negative), and the more beautiful the woman the more I find this true.

"DON'T (for the love of God) ever make her even think that you're a pathetic, needy, weak man and that you need her."

i couldn't agree more. Weakness KILLS attraction. If she sees you as weak she will walk.

I'm less sure on the spoiling part. I don't do that personally. I will admit I did that with my last GF to a certain extent, but that was well after I established the desire to form a union. I find they tend to lose respect if you do that too soon, but they're quick to brand you as cheap if you don't spend - both of which are bad - so it has always been a delicate balance for me.

Glad to know you are faring well. :) I would too based on your description. I'm finding myself in a similar situation, but it is much too soon for me to gauge my interest and determine if I want to settle down with her, but for now I'm going with the flow. My target is a bit younger than I, so I'm expecting maturity issues. That's the deal breaker for me really. I'll keep bumping this tread to compare.



 

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Weedlab said:
I suspected you learned similar principles I did, and anow I am totally sure That's why I asked about the asshole part in particular. When I was field testing I found being nice hardly ever worked. It's ironic since most of them respond positively to some form of negative behavior (more like good with a hint of negative), and the more beautiful the woman the more I find this true.

"DON'T (for the love of God) ever make her even think that you're a pathetic, needy, weak man and that you need her."

i couldn't agree more. Weakness KILLS attraction. If she sees you as weak she will walk.

I'm less sure on the spoiling part. I don't do that personally. I will admit I did that with my last GF to a certain extent, but that was well after I established the desire to form a union. I find they tend to lose respect if you do that too soon, but they're quick to brand you as cheap if you don't spend - both of which are bad - so it has always been a delicate balance for me.

Glad to know you are faring well. :) I would too based on your description. I'm finding myself in a similar situation, but it is much too soon for me to gauge my interest and determine if I want to settle down with her, but for now I'm going with the flow. My target is a bit younger than I, so I'm expecting maturity issues. That's the deal breaker for me really. I'll keep bumping this tread to compare.


I enjoyed your post ;)

"When I was field testing I found being nice hardly ever worked."

Of course that doesn't work! You don't want to be a Volvo, you want to be a fucking Porsche or Ferrari. Or better, an Aston Martin I didn't put this in the OP, but literally the biggest factor I've learnt in all my years is that they go crazy over a guy who is very detached. You know, renunciation... They can sense that you'd be able to walk away from this and be fine. That's a little hard to explain over a wall of text, but it's something I meditate on regularly.

Nice guys give the impression that they are weak sometimes. The idea (imo) is to be a bit of a bad-ass and a nice guy at the same time. Like my angle would be that I'm a Nuclear Physicisit, ex-monk, surfer who lives with videogame developers and smokes a shit load of weed. I think my CV alone gets me a lot of attention. Go and play guitar or paint or do something outside of the basement and once you differentiate yourself from the pack you'll be sought after like cheese on nachos haha.



I'm just like you, i could get almost every girl i want and act the same way you do. The only thing i do different is not giving her too much presents and money. Girls don't like to be bought, i usually don't buy her drinks, only things like a dinner in special ocasions or tickets to a rock show but try not to give expensive presents. Besides that all you say is so true and weedlad should take your advices.



ruimartiniman said:
I'm just like you, i could get almost every girl i want and act the same way you do. The only thing i do different is not giving her too much presents and money. Girls don't like to be bought, i usually don't buy her drinks, only things like a dinner in special ocasions or tickets to a rock show but try not to give expensive presents. Besides that all you say is so true and weedlad should take your advices.


I think I might have given the wrong impression with that.

Ummm, let me give some context.

- I stayed in their mansion cost free on holiday for almost a month. Chopper flights, 4 wheeling in the mountains, pine coladas by the pool... An absolute dream holiday with a young sexy girl. I didn't spend a cent the entire time.

- She always drives us around since her car is worth 10x what mine is and it's just more fun like that.

- I'm going to their beach house on holiday soon and will be scuba diving etc. for free.

- She cooks me food regularly and lovingly. She washes my clothes. She takes care of me a little bit.

Here are the important things!!!!

I haven't spent that much money on things for her at all! I include in the "spoiling" category things like picking her flowers myself and leaving a little letter with them when I leave her place. All of my gifts have been very tasteful. The surfboard was an impulse buy. I am teaching her how to surf and I couldn't resist.

Actually, you make an invaluable point: Spoiling a girl rotten is not a recipe for success.  My intention rather is to make her feel excited, special, wanted and pampered. Then you screw her brains out.

:-|

No seriously, they all love that. Just flip them over and go for it.



ruimartiniman said:
I'm just like you, i could get almost every girl i want and act the same way you do. The only thing i do different is not giving her too much presents and money. Girls don't like to be bought, i usually don't buy her drinks, only things like a dinner in special ocasions or tickets to a rock show but try not to give expensive presents. Besides that all you say is so true and weedlad should take your advices.


Might I ask (and be honest of you don't mind) a question or two:

1) How would you gauge your own attractiveness? Do you have girls coming up to you and going gaga, or is it more your attitude/personality/skillset/etc.?

2) Do you think being very attractive is necessary to be a ladies man?

Just curious.



Another thing. Look after yourself. Personal hygiene and a little skin cream and some physical exercise. They all love a well groomed man.