Thats how we did it. Dont expect to last long the 1st go ;)

If the woman is infected, vaginal fluid can carry the virus.

I actually had the opposite problem, I didn't come at all the first dozen or so times I had sex.

It sounds like you're having some serious social/connection issues. I'm also having those and I want to fix this and I'm giving you the same tools as I use. My biggest problem is that I don't care about going out to party's, disco's, clubs, drinking alcohol and I assume you also don't. I just don't like it and it's not really fair only those kinds of activities are necessary for social connection. It is although very important to have friends you can talk to and who are there for you. I'm not referring to those party-only friends who can't talk about emotions because that's taboo. I have really good friends with about the same interests as me.

My attempt to be a more social person is a bit unusual and some people will be against it. I'm 21 years old and still virgin and don't have any experience with women. I discovered however that my methods before this were wrong and that it's asking to be friendzoned by women. Lately I've been reading and watching videos/books by Paul Janka. He may seem like a narcist scumbag, but he's actually a really smart guy with somewhat the same history like we're having. I'm giving you this link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWXJE4c3Xvs. Go read his books Attraction Formula and Getting ** in New York. Go watch pickup videos called Daygame. Talking to women in public will be very good for your self-esteem and it will also get you laid. This is proven by multiple pickup artists. Talk to women and your life will change. It's that simple. There are also men who get long term relationships by doing daygame. Daygame is free, you can do it every day, at every place. Talk to a woman for like 2 minutes and get her number. You'll also meet new people. 

27 here.. I bet most of you can't beat that. I have some anxiety issues in social situtations, as well as self confidence issues, can come off very nervous, and am very quiet unless I've REALLY gotten to know you (and this applies to everyone, not just women).. so not exatcly traits the females are generally into.

For awhile I was really down on myself, but I've finally realized if I've gone this far without having sex and turned out ok, it must not be that important to me, and isn't as important as society tries to make it seem. Now I try to just hold my head high and be happy, and try not to waste my life in anguish worrying about it like I did in my late teens and early 20s. If it happens, great. If not, it's not the end of the world. And frankly, I don't know why sticking your dick in someone is the end all be all and suddenly makes you a badass or whatever, and I certainly don't see why others care.. I have to fight the contstant pressure and brainwashing from society that perpetuates the idea of an older guy being a virgin as weird, nerdy, pathetic, or whatever. But once you get over that brainwashing mindfuck, it's really not so bad, and I don't see the big deal in it.

Are you sure you're not making up excuses for not having sex? I used to go that far, but that was a way to convince myself I am responsible for not having sex and somehow 'I don't need it', 'It's not that special' or 'It's better to wait for the right person'. But I'm now in a mindstate I'm willing to admit I really do want sex and just suck at getting women. It's in our nature to enjoy sex. Even dolphins have sex with eachother because that stimulates the interaction between individuals. The sex alone may not be that special (penis in a vagina), but I'm sure it makes you very close to that person and you're enjoying from eachother. I think you need somebody to be physical intimate with in life. I'm a 21 year old virgin and I'm busy with a 'project' to talk to random girls in public like this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWXJE4c3Xvs

Leadified said: 18 here and I was going through phases of depression and my social life was slowly falling apart in high school. I began to rebuild my social life and become more confident in university and at least now I have some female friends.

I was about your age when I had sex for the first time and, let me tell you, I was in a full blow depression before it hapenned, suicidal even. It all went away after my firt sex experience. It is brutal how lack of sex can turn a man insane.

I'm a virgin because I just turned 13 like 3 months ago ._.

I feel for all you guys who'd like to get some action, but just can't. I used to be kinda like that, making all mistakes possible, practically talking girls out of having sex with me, but thankfully that's long past me and now I find it really easy to get a girl. If you want advice, the absolutely best one I can give you is...

Corey Wayne.

Google him, watch his movies on youtube, read his articles on his webpage, buy his book "How To Be A 3% Man" (it's super cheap and worth every single penny - really buy it and read at least ten times, I try to read it once every month). I found him after I've already managed to power through my insecurities and had some success in the field and still managed to benefit and learn a lot. The guy just knows his shit. He's not the kind of coach trying to turn guys into all-muscle disco assholes trying to fuck braindead bimbos in a stinking club toilet, but really dishes out quality information on how to get quality girls and how to change yourself for the better in general, how to improve your relationship, etc. If you guys have problems, just read, listen and learn. And if you happen to find yourself in a situation he describes and you are battling inside what to do - act like you always do or do what he told you to do, always do what he says. This stuff really works, even if it sounds crazy or counterintuitive to you. A couple months ago, just for fun, I've tried to apply the date guide he gave in his book to a very cute girl I've met. I've done every single thing the way he writes, haven't gone off the path for a single moment and suffice to say, she still writes to me on a daily basis, even though we live in different cities, quite far away from each other and we can only meet for a weekend once a month. And these are some very entertaining weekends

To sum up - the guy knows what he's talking about. Watch it, learn it, practice it and you'll get it. It's no rocket science, they want to have fun as well.

I wish I could reply to all these people sharing but there is just too many D: