| Slade6alpha said: I want to write something serious, but it's too personal and sad; and not many others are taking this thread serious yet. I am a virgin though (not proud of it). Edit: Screw it. I'll go. 20-year-old virgin and have not even done anything involved with a woman... A girl has never liked me back, I'm way too shy, inferiority complex, no self elsteem/self confidence. Whenever I walk by an attractive woman, (either at college, or out in stores) I always look down. I can never look a woman in the eyes. In high school, 10 h grade English class, we had to do a weird assignment where we got paired up with someone else. I got paired up with this really popular, beuatiful girl. We (whole class) had to stare into each other's eyes for 2 minutes and then write about them. This was horrible, I got so sweaty and completely red, it was just miserable. I've gotten to the point now where I just do not care anymore. Most of my friends have left for other colleges, or states and the people I do meet in college pretty much all leave after the semester, so it's been even more challenging to meeting friends, and especially meeting girls. I met this one girl Kaitlyn in my Accounting class, she was really pretty, and I actually didn't feel nervous talking to her; I could actually hold a conversation with her. We joked, but after a month and a half, she dropped due to a low score. That was last Fall and I've had nothing come similiar to that to now. |
It sounds like you're having some serious social/connection issues. I'm also having those and I want to fix this and I'm giving you the same tools as I use. My biggest problem is that I don't care about going out to party's, disco's, clubs, drinking alcohol and I assume you also don't. I just don't like it and it's not really fair only those kinds of activities are necessary for social connection. It is although very important to have friends you can talk to and who are there for you. I'm not referring to those party-only friends who can't talk about emotions because that's taboo. I have really good friends with about the same interests as me.
My attempt to be a more social person is a bit unusual and some people will be against it. I'm 21 years old and still virgin and don't have any experience with women. I discovered however that my methods before this were wrong and that it's asking to be friendzoned by women. Lately I've been reading and watching videos/books by Paul Janka. He may seem like a narcist scumbag, but he's actually a really smart guy with somewhat the same history like we're having. I'm giving you this link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWXJE4c3Xvs. Go read his books Attraction Formula and Getting ** in New York. Go watch pickup videos called Daygame. Talking to women in public will be very good for your self-esteem and it will also get you laid. This is proven by multiple pickup artists. Talk to women and your life will change. It's that simple. There are also men who get long term relationships by doing daygame. Daygame is free, you can do it every day, at every place. Talk to a woman for like 2 minutes and get her number. You'll also meet new people.
