| Metallicube said: 27 here.. I bet most of you can't beat that. I have some anxiety issues in social situtations, as well as self confidence issues, can come off very nervous, and am very quiet unless I've REALLY gotten to know you (and this applies to everyone, not just women).. so not exatcly traits the females are generally into. For awhile I was really down on myself, but I've finally realized if I've gone this far without having sex and turned out ok, it must not be that important to me, and isn't as important as society tries to make it seem. Now I try to just hold my head high and be happy, and try not to waste my life in anguish worrying about it like I did in my late teens and early 20s. If it happens, great. If not, it's not the end of the world. And frankly, I don't know why sticking your dick in someone is the end all be all and suddenly makes you a badass or whatever, and I certainly don't see why others care.. I have to fight the contstant pressure and brainwashing from society that perpetuates the idea of an older guy being a virgin as weird, nerdy, pathetic, or whatever. But once you get over that brainwashing mindfuck, it's really not so bad, and I don't see the big deal in it. |
Are you sure you're not making up excuses for not having sex? I used to go that far, but that was a way to convince myself I am responsible for not having sex and somehow 'I don't need it', 'It's not that special' or 'It's better to wait for the right person'. But I'm now in a mindstate I'm willing to admit I really do want sex and just suck at getting women. It's in our nature to enjoy sex. Even dolphins have sex with eachother because that stimulates the interaction between individuals. The sex alone may not be that special (penis in a vagina), but I'm sure it makes you very close to that person and you're enjoying from eachother. I think you need somebody to be physical intimate with in life. I'm a 21 year old virgin and I'm busy with a 'project' to talk to random girls in public like this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWXJE4c3Xvs
