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being gay a choice vs born that way.

It's a lifestyle choice 120 25.53%
 
Your born that way 250 53.19%
 
no opinion 36 7.66%
 
other---for anything I missed 62 13.19%
 
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BadF***ingButters on 17 May 2011

This is an easy one everyone is bisexual to a certain extent. If your say you aren't then you are obviously lying because I said so and I am never ever wrong. 



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sapphi_snake on 17 May 2011
axumblade said:
Seece said:
Lostplanet22 said:

I understand this question and I know people would get mad about it;.

But their are so many boys/man who are 20 or even 40 who are married have a wife and children ...And then end up gay while they always like women before....   So it is like they became gay (so not born that way) or have made a choice about it;.

Honestly I don't care about gay people , so long I don't have to see it (sorry can't stand it)..

lol, you don't honestly think they were straight to begin with do you? The explanation is pretty easy on that one, they were with a woman and had a family through fear of being judged.

Yeah. That happens a lot actually. In fact, someone I used to know is getting married. Every time he tried to come out, he kept chickening out so he would try to compensate whenever he was "gay" with sleeping with a girl.

That seems sad. Someone should out him. Would do him a world of good.



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sapphi_snake on 17 May 2011
Lostplanet22 said:
sapphi_snake said:
Lostplanet22 said:
Seece said:
Lostplanet22 said:

I understand this question and I know people would get mad about it;.

But their are so many boys/man who are 20 or even 40 who are married have a wife and children ...And then end up gay while they always like women before....   So it is like they became gay (so not born that way) or have made a choice about it;.

Honestly I don't care about gay people , so long I don't have to see it (sorry can't stand it)..

lol, you don't honestly think they were straight to begin with do you? The explanation is pretty easy on that one, they were with a woman and had a family through fear of being judged.

Yeah that is what I thought, but last weekend it was gay pride here in Brussels... Hate it or love it, but some of those men told me they liked women and later fell in love with men...with later I mean 30-40... 

If you were wondering why I was their...I wanted to check out the lesbian busses =p.

Maybe those men were bisexual? There is such a thing you know...

Also, how many men told you that? It's not as if you base this on a scientifical study.

Well I went not into details..

Only a few of them, and no did no scientificial study about it...

Well I am going to let it rest, I don't care if someone is born gay or choose to be gay anyway.. So long they have fun and don't hit on me.

Do you like not feeling wanted?



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"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

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Kamal on 17 May 2011

It's a lifestyle choice, really do get riled up when people say that they were "born" that way. Am not born to like anime, or orange juice so it really annoys me when people say that.



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MrBubbles on 17 May 2011

not born that way.  not a choice. 



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MrBubbles on 17 May 2011
Kamal said:

It's a lifestyle choice, really do get riled up when people say that they were "born" that way. Am not born to like anime, or orange juice so it really annoys me when people say that.


you are sexually attracted to anime and orange juice?  woah......thats hardcore, dude. 



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S____M____C____C on 17 May 2011

Being gay isn't 'nature' - because the whole point of sex/attraction is reproduction obviously and support for the young.

It's anti-nature. I know that makes being gay sound like a bad thing, and its not, but thats the way it is.

Anyway I believe its choice. All males are born to enjoy stimulation of the penis; the choice is whether the stimulation is done by a female's front, or another dude's rear end. You chose which is more aesthetically pleasing to you.



Chrizum on 17 May 2011
S____M____C____C said:

Being gay isn't 'nature' - because the whole point of sex/attraction is reproduction obviously and support for the young.

It's anti-nature. I know that makes being gay sound like a bad thing, and its not, but thats the way it is.

Anyway I believe its choice. All males are born to enjoy stimulation of the penis; the choice is whether the stimulation is done by a female's front, or another dude's rear end. You chose which is more aesthetically pleasing to you.

You can't pick your emotions... "today I'll deicde to be attracted to men for a change". There is no choice involved whatsoever. In fact, we have little control over most things in life.



The Fury on 17 May 2011
BadF***ingButters said:

This is an easy one everyone is bisexual to a certain extent. If your say you aren't then you are obviously lying because I said so and I am never ever wrong. 

Not going to argue against this is any form. I do believe everyone is bisexual, it's just a matter of where they sit on the scale. Most are 'straight' but that straight still might be 90% straight to 10% gay, it's enough to acknowledge someone of the same sex is attractive but never act upon or take part in a same sex relationship as they have no desire to.

Of course I've said this thinking to both straight and gay people and they both answered in the same mannor "You're wrong, I'm not gay/straight in anyway." 



Hmm, pie.

S____M____C____C on 17 May 2011
Chrizum said:
S____M____C____C said:

Being gay isn't 'nature' - because the whole point of sex/attraction is reproduction obviously and support for the young.

It's anti-nature. I know that makes being gay sound like a bad thing, and its not, but thats the way it is.

Anyway I believe its choice. All males are born to enjoy stimulation of the penis; the choice is whether the stimulation is done by a female's front, or another dude's rear end. You chose which is more aesthetically pleasing to you.

You can't pick your emotions... "today I'll deicde to be attracted to men for a change". There is no choice involved whatsoever. In fact, we have little control over most things in life.

Your environment shapes your emotions to a very large extent. You develop schema of what is attractive, and then males or females will fulfill this attractive criteria better for you.