I know. The mods should just let people do whatever they want without consequence. That makes perfect sense.

Anywho, the best way to get a girlfriend is initiate it in some way. It's tough if you're shy, but it's never going to happen just because you want it to happen. Become friends with her, ask here to hang out, and if you know her well enough, tell her how you feel. There are no tricks about it.

yea because thats totally what i just said

see, i can play that game too. fucking annoying, isn't it?

No, but you heavily implied it. The mods aren't totalitarian just because you don't follow the rules.

I'd rather not turn this thread off topic, so just get the point, and maybe you'll be banned less often.

Oh great, I think I break number four half the time I see my girlfriend.

That's only really valid when you are first starting to date her.   Once you are deep into a relationship this is an OK question to ask.  In fact all of these seem targeted towards the first few dates.   I doubt anyone already in a relationship would even considering asking question number 1.

The article got it wrong though. Most women don't care about some strong, decision making, tobacco chewing, coal mining man. They just don't want to make decisions, because people in general don't. I don't want to decide where to eat on a Saturday night, I just want to eat somewhere good.

The article got it wrong though. Most women don't care about some strong, decision making, tobacco chewing, coal mining man. They just don't want to make decisions, because people in general don't. I don't want to decide where to eat on a Saturday night, I just want to eat somewhere good.

yes, they do care about strong men who make decisions... i dont know where you got tobacco chewing and coal mining from? pulled it out of your ass?

Most women really don't. I made those other things up because they're other examples of manly stereotypes. Now shutup and go away.

Esmoreit: Well, nobody likes not having decisions being made. I've had to make decisions a lot when other people won't, and they always follow my decisions because they have no choice otherwise. It's the same with dating. There's nothing worse than the awkward moments that come from not having any decisions being made. Nobody likes being called up and asking what they want to do. I hate it too. The person calling should suggest it. That's all.