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Slimebeast said:
zexen_lowe said:
Slimebeast said:
zexen_lowe said:
pastro243 said:
zexen_lowe said:
I don't remember ever having seen a bullying case in my school, at least in my division. Maybe we were saints?

I think is something people from usa have, I havent seen bullying cases in my school either, maybe a fight like once every 2 years or something like that, there was no exclsive victim or bully, everyone pissed others with stupid jokes, and that would be it.

Likely because in recess most men where playing football, and other guys like e and my friends made other stupid thigs or stayed talking with the girls.

It really depends on which school you are, in some extremely poor locations you see what you could call bullying, with a minority of kids being delincuents.

Maybe it's one of the good things South America has...no bullying

Yeah, I mean, there were fights, surely, but not people picking on purpose over the weak, I never saw that happen here

I don't believe you. You must be blind or something lol.

In the West bullyuing is common in all skools, on all levels until high skool (but not at all as much on the university level). In almost every skool class someone or a couple of kids are bullied for being fat, ugly, nerdy, shy or whatever. Overall it's perhaps a bit less common among wealthy kids and in religious skools.

I don't know why it has to be so common. I remember that watching cartoons and films it always struck me as odd, because it's something I never saw. I don't mean that kids are saints here, they smoke, drink, take drugs and everything. But we don't have "jocks"...I know that because it's a concept it was difficult for me to grasp. Here no one cares what sport anyone does. I've never seen a group of "tough guys" trying to bully a weak one, I can assure you of that

 

And for the record, I went to a public, secular (is that the proper term? Whatever, non-religious) high school.

 

And I suggest, try not to pass as if you knew every single education system. I certainly don't think I know how it is in Sweden


It's very interesting to hear. I dont claim I know the school atmosphere and societies in South America.

But how about this then - perhaps you grew up in a rural lil town in Argentina? People in general are much friendlier in rural compared to urban.


Nope, I lived all my life in Buenos Aires, a 13 million people city




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Lol, my country only has 10 million people.



I have to concur with others. Anyone claiming to have not witnessed bullying is somewhat naive. The reality is that its a social and psychological dynamic. The most rational explanation for your lack of recollection is that you resided within the sphere of protection. Basically the largest clique of the class which ensured that you were not in a position to be dominated. Nor did you feel any need to dominate another to elevate your position.

Bullying behavior is almost always on the outskirts of the social hierarchy. Among the kids that are not part of the in crowd. Obviously you would not know this being inside, but anyone sitting in the outskirts could see this day in and day out. Students generally break into smaller units. I guarantee you that in each of your classes there was a bully, and there was some that were bullied. You were just oblivious to all of it, because it was not part of your scene. Meanwhile the guy at the back of the class is getting tormented regularly by the guy a few rungs higher up the food chain.

Personally I was not bullied as a child, because I was borderline psychotic. I was a mad man with the strength to match, and I was not beyond using any available weapon. I would throw a fist sized rock into your face. Club you with a stick. Claw you with my finger nails, or even stab you with a writing implement. Bottom line I was generally too fucking nuts to be fucked with, and any bully that tried fast found that out.

Thus I found myself a cadre of good friends growing up. Eventually the bullied pick up on the fact that the lunatic on the swing sets was the safe place to be. More times then I can count I was escorting someone home. It did not matter if they had three or four guys coming after them. At the time I was pretty oblivious to it, but recollecting back to the time for some I was probably the only comfort they had.

Speaking to the stereotype of the football playing bullies. That is purely fictional, and is the fodder of Hollywood hacks. The majority of bullies are antisocial misanthropes. Which have little social standing, and have a poor home environment. They bully because they have nothing, and feel poorly about themselves. So they gain a sense of well being by dominating others. Your typical bully only has a couple friends, and he rarely participates in group activities. Basically the bully is at best found in a group of three, and they are also usually the one in trouble for doing everything else wrong.

Then again you guys might not have had issues with bullies, because they are all out living on the streets. The sad truth is that bullies mugging other kids for lunch money is more often then not about the bully getting enough money for them to buy a lunch. Perhaps in South America when you are that low on the totem you probably couldn't even afford to go to school.



Never been bullied or bullied anyone, There wasn't a huge amount of that going on in my secondary school (which is weird as it is one of the biggest in London) but I have had to stop kids in lower years from being dicks to each other.

While you can't deny that it goes on and will for a while its being handled well in certain schools, growing up we were constantly barraged by anti bullying campaigns and introduced to our "anti bullying mentors" and later on we had to elect our own student head of anti bullying etc etc.



Neither...I never bullied anyone...and I was too resilient to get bullied.



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I was quiet and kept to myself. People would always say "Ya'll don't want to mess with Tim (that's me). He's dangerous!" I didn't do anything to contradict the stereotype, though. Nobody bothered me. I didn't bother anybody.



I was bullied for all 12 grades of school. Thankfully adults are more sensible.



Why must JRPG female leads suck so bad?

i got bullied at secondary school alot, not so much at primary and college was fine.



I was bullied by one kid in the 6th grade. I never met him until the day he beat me up before but one one day he followed me on my way home and beat me up for no reason.



I like Bacon said:
I was bullied by one kid in the 6th grade. I never met him until the day he beat me up before but one one day he followed me on my way home and beat me up for no reason.

Probaly was something Nintendo Fan Girl said that really pissed him off..........