Ok, don't worry, as you say, the Wii is the leader system and here is a list of coming games that you should be interested in:

Fatal Frame 4
Monster Hunter 3
Dragon Quest X
The Conduit
Fragile
Final Fantasy: Crystal Bearers
Cursed Mountain
Red Steel 2
Little King Story
Resident Evil: The Darkside Chronicles
No More Heroes 2
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And all of them are from 3rd parties.

3rd parties are never going to come around to the point where stuff like MadWorld becomes a regularity. They're still going to be pussyfooting around the console, being cautious without betting on the least common denominator. There will be many more worthwhile 3rd party Wii games, but not some great profusion of them.

Oh right! I forgot about Okami, I wanted to try that one too! And I think you are right about the falling back on my PS3, I hadn't thought about that. And you last sentence is just pure awesome

A very personal point of view indeed, but is it wrong to assume that other people out there feel like me? You can call it "Constructive critisicm on the Wii lineup IMO", and at least it's a different point of view than the typical "Wii doesn't have any games!" or "casuals on the Wii, bla bla bla"

Yes it has, but I'm not here to rip a new hole in this discussion, I am just pointing it out. And if I was a 3rd party developer watching Deadly Creatures from the sideline, while Wii Fit dominates the sales charts, I sure as hell would be in doubt about what to do with that platform and all the people wanting "hardcore" games on it.

Yes and no. M-rated games are by no means something I am going for specifically, but Killzone 2, Call of Duty 4, Fallout 3 and Dead Space are all good games. But games like LittleBigPlanet, Burnout Paradise and Valkyria Chronicles are all great games that I probably like more than the four M-rated games I mentioned before. So, hardcore, I'd say so, but M-rated is not a criteria by a long shot.

I will keep my PS3, and I will love it, but I want to love the Wii as well, and like with my PS3, it wont happen without more 3rd party games I have interest in.

These, but just take a look at this list:  http://www.vgchartz.com/forum/thread.php?id=34940

If there aren't many games on that list that you like then I would refrain from getting wii this year. Maybe next year.

Well, looking at that list, the problem becomes more obvious! Lack of western support!

Of the japanese games, I need to investigate Fatal Frame 4, Monster Hunter(s), Little King Story and No More Heroes 2. Those are the only japanese games I might have an interest in.

Red Steel was pretty mediocre as far as I can understand, so I'm cautios about the second one.

The Conduit is going to make or break with its control scheme for me I think (and I am confident it will hold up), but I would still like it to be nice in other areas, which I am not so sure about yet.

And I watched some of those new gameplay movies from Cursed Mountain on IGN earlier, and I really need some reviews/more gameplay before I can decide on it.

I can understand you concern. In fact, I think I have a similar issue with the 360 and PS3 at the moment - both systems seem pretty solid and I'd probably buy at least one of them, but they don't exactly cater to someone like myself, and thus lack enough "interesting enough" exclusive games to justify a purchase.

You've been given enough titles already, so I won't bother you with more. But if you have the money and can find enough interesting stuff to cover the consoles cost, then go for it. You can still sell the Wii online and probably make a profit if it doesn't work out for some reason.

Well, Wii is worth owning solely for Nintendo's first party support; Zelda, Mario , Brawl, Fire Emblem , Mario Kart etc. etc. are great games which will never be available on the PS3.

Then there are different ways of playing games like shooters, action games (NMH or The Conduit are good examples) and with motion plus coming soon the possibilities are endless.

If you own a Wii, you need to go run out and buy Madworld right now, IMO. Western Wii "hardcore" titles flop over and over again -- its beginning to be less of a coincidence, and much more of a trend. You can call me out for saying Madworld is a flop after only 1 week, if you like... but a game as hardcore as Madworld isn't going to appeal to the "legs" shopper, in my opinion -- if you were ever going to buy it, you already knew about it.

Before long, there won't be any motivation for non-casual gamers to own a Wii, outside of JRPGs and Nintendo 1st party titles.

Buy Madworld now! (it may be worth a fortune as a collector's item someday, for all you know)

 Yes from your library of games I'd say you lean toward western tastes. Western Developers are more concerned with the art of games rather than the business side. So they will never fully embrace the wii. But there will be some western devs that do.

EA seems to have some interesting stuff coming, like Dead Space: Extraction, Spore Heroes and Boom Blox. They at least show some effort. Activision will keep cranking out Guitar Heroes and Call of Dutys. Hopefully the wii versions will be even better than the last ones. Retro Studios (yes they are western) will probably announce the game(s) they're working on at E3 this year. Ubisoft has Red Steel 2.......and that's it. Hopefully they get their crap together and release something worth while eventually. It's rumored that THQ might have another wii game or two in the works. High Voltage is releasing Animales de la muerte along with The Conduit. If The Conduit does well they will also do a sequel or two. Rockstar has said that they "can't ignore the wii" so i'd see them developing something original at this point.

I think that pretty much sums up where the wii is in western developer's eyes.

EDIT: The conduit has adjustable controls in every sense of the term so i'm sure you'll like the controls.

Im sorry but which Western Wii hardcore title have bombed on the Wi?

Because i dont know any Western game that have a big budget and long development time, that have bombed on that console.

And no Deadly Creatures wont be an answer.