I figured out whats going on. Theres a guy involved in this that I don't talk to anymore - hes manipulating the situation and is trying to get her mad at me to confirm the truth in what I originally passed on to my friend. I'm just a casualty to him that he doesn't care about.
So I'm manipulating back :)
[2:08:58 am] Moongoddess256: being asian makes you naturally good at ddr
[2:09:22 am] gnizmo: its a weird genetic thing
[2:09:30 am] gnizmo: goes back to hunting giant crabs in feudal Japan