I don't get why it's so difficult for so many men to get invested in the story of a female character. A lot of my favorite characters are female. The first two Alien films were great largely because of how awesome Ripley was, Sigourney Weaver's performance in the second movie especially was amazing. Furiosa stole the show in the latest Mad Max movie to the point she got her own film, which despite flopping at the box office was fucking awesome too. Hell even if we look at superhero stuff, my favorite character from Spider-Verse (one of the few great superhero movies of the last few years) is probably Gwen.
Look, I'll be the first to admit I cringed super hard when I heard the "X-Women" line from Dark Phoenix. But the problem with that line, honestly isn't so much the line by itself, but rather that it makes no sense in context. If there had been a precedent in the series (or even in just this movie itself) of the women always being the ones who save the men's asses, it'd make a bit more sense for her to say that, but there isn't. If Mystique had a history of feeling prejudiced against for her gender or was the kind of character to get really fired up about social issues, then maybe it'd make a bit more sense, but she doesn't. That line came out of nowhere and felt so forced and out of place. That's bad writing, and it clearly came from an agenda the studio is trying to push.
The problem isn't in having females/people of color/gays/trans/literally-anything-that-isn't-a-white-straight-cis-male in movies. The problem isn't even having that message in the movie. The problem is when studios, in an attempt to appeal to all audiences, decide to shoehorn in lines like that instead of actually having the writers incorporate those messages in the script.
So like I kinda get the anger from the anti-woke crowd, there's a lot of bad writing going on in big studio movies, especially Disney movies lately, but like... grow a backbone, man. If a movie sucks, it sucks. Move on. Dark Phoenix sucked, and so did that line. But it didn't suck (solely) because of that line, it was just a bad movie. I've moved on.