Fairly simple. Race is a social construct based on heritage, often groupings of various ethnicities - stuff we literally just made up, usually based things like skin pigments and location of population. Gender is a construct based on sexual identity - which while a social construct in itself, has a basis with inherent biological urges. A transgendered woman won’t share the same biological urges as a man. In other words, they’re two very different things with two different sets of rules defined by culture and politics.
Both can be changed, though (although transgendered people might feel they’ve always felt different a different gender than their biology would otherwise dictate). Changing either depends on the culture you live in and their own nuances.
You can change your race, it is often a matter of moving to a different culture where the rules for race are different. And you normally won’t have a choice as to what race people think you are in most cases - sometimes there are overlapping definitions, so Jewish people can identify as white or Jewish.
Many cultures allow for gender reassignment which allow people to identify as different genders.
The black question in the US is controversial largely because of the heritage shared by black people. Black in the US is associated with African American heritage, which is genetic heritage by American law. This is why you have the white guy who plays Trevor on Fresh Prince being considered black in the US.
To bring up your example, an ethnic Caucasian might be considered white in the US, but in other locations they’re considered middle eastern, Aryan, or Asian. Different cultures, different definitions. Another example is “Aryan” is a term considered white in the 1930s Nazi culture, but I am talking about the Northern Indian term. Speaking of Indian, in the US Indians are their native population, but again, I am talking about the people of the Northern part of the Indian sub-continent.
Different cultures, different rules, different labels.
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