Honestly no big deal.
Shaq is right heat of the moment stuff and this shit been happening for year. Could it be seen racist? sure if it happened out of the blue whilst you eating lunch and some black guy said it to you.
In general the smack talk should probably tone done. I mean would you be offended with what harrel said more than if he took a shot at your gf? or say a brother that might have down syndrome or something?
Harrell apologised in the end because he thought he pushed the line with the smack talk and that is all that matters. No need to make it a mountain out of a mole hill.