MrWayne said:
DrDoomz said:
2) Look at the video. You can see the kids taking part in the protests (even the video mentions that protests are coming from students and parents).
2a) Children at this age cannot decide for themselves, ultimately it is the parent (unless they are found to be provably grossly negligent/harmful to their kids in w/c case, the state will have to step in) who decides for their children. I kinda find this line of reasoning a bit ludicrous. You want the kids to have choice by giving them (and their parents) no choice (to opt out)?
2b) Someone already gave the holocaust-denier vs history argument to me. I feel the statement is a bit of a false comparison. LGBT sensitivity lessons are not hard sciences and I don't think we even teach hard sciences to 4-5 year olds.
Homeschooling is already the ultimate "opt out" option parents can exercise. Is opting for homeschooling illegal? Should it be? If it IS legal and if you think it should be, the answer would be: there was never a line to begin with. If not, then do you think schools should be able to take kids away from parents if they opt out of the public schooling and prefer to home school?
Did French lessons deeply conflict with your heritage/culture? Maybe you should have protested then. :p
2c) I feel that taxes and following of laws are within the social contracts agreed upon by those who wish to be members of society in order to pay for the needs of the collective. I guess you can see that as a form of oppression but at least it is something you signed up for and know about by becoming a member of society and it is enforced via the law (prison). I'm not too sure that accepting the majority's view (no matter how well meaning) on how society should be and forcing it onto a minority even tho it deeply contrary to their values is also part of the social contract we all signed up for. I doubt these parents knowingly and willingly signed up for said classes as evidenced by their protest.
3) Their protest is a reaction to a political act. Once politics was inserted the reaction cannot be helped but be political as well. The thing about meeting government requirements is that there is quite a bit of discretion on the persons(s) meeting it, for as long as said requirements are legally met within the word of the law (this is part of what I do for a living). What this means is that educators are actually allowed to customize said lessons as a compromise to parents for as long as said lessons still meet the conditions of said law.
Yeah, in retrospect, I agree I worded that badly, but I was in a hurry and couldn't really come up with a better descriptor at the time. My point was that protests and dialogue could possibly allow them to meet in the middle and come up with a solution for both sides. My suggestion for the school is to meet with the parents and clearly explain to them what the law is and ask them how they parents feel they should move forward to meet the requirements of this law and move from there.
I am not the parent in question here, I wouldn't know what their preferences are so I can't really answer your question on what the middle ground is. Whether or not a middle ground is ultimately found, we cannot deny the fact that if the parents are allowed to at least participate in a dialogue, their concerns can at least be heard. I don't know if it will work, but the process in place at least allows for such to be possible.
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2a) You're almost right. "It is the parent who decides for their children" within the frame in which the State allowes them to decide for their children. Parents can't decide if their child should go to school, Parents mostly can't decide what their child learns at school and in those few cases they can decide what their child learns at school, the State gave them the ability to do so.
I don't understand why you find my line of reasoning ludicrous because what you said in the next sentence "you want the kids to have choice by giving them (and their parents) no choice (to opt out)?" is exactly the line of reasoning behind a mandatory education system.
2b) I think it is pretty well proven that LGBT people exist and that they love their children as much as anyone else so I don't think my comparison was false. Again where would you draw the line?
I think homeschooling should only be allowed in very extreme cases (the child is chronically ill and can't attend school, school is 50km away, etc.). I don't know how legislation is in the UK but here in Bavaria it is very difficult to homeschool your kid. And yes if parents refuse to bring their kids to school, the police will bring them to the school.
2c) Well I do think that education is up to a certain extent part of the social contract.
3) Politics was not inserted when they printed the new school books, politics was inserted when they invented the school system. Why do you think the old school books didn't include LGBT couples? It was a political decision to not include them.
Of course there are different ways to meet the requirements of the law but I doubt there is on without LGBT. I hope the can reach a solution in which still every student gets educated about LGBT.
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2a) And you are partly right. Home schooling is entirely legal in the UK: (http://www.lawandparents.co.uk/regulations-surrounding-the-home-schooling-of-your-child.html). There are provisions to it (especially if the kid is in the middle of the school year) but it is entirely legal. Parents can also somewhat decide what their kids can learn in school if enough of them applies pressure via protest (w/c is a fundamental right, not a privilege. Source: https://www.libertyhumanrights.org.uk/human-rights/what-are-human-rights/human-rights-act/article-11-right-protest) to the school and the school compromises.
It's ludicrous because the crux of your argument was about choice yet you want it done by taking away choice, a contradiction fallacy.
2b) Values/Social education is not a hard science . I feel this is self explanatory so I'll assume that you're simply being facetious.
If you ask me personally where I draw my line as in enforced education: I draw no line as drawing a subjective line would mean that others can impose their subjective line onto me. It is unfortunate and I feel it is detrimental to the child if a parent decides to misuse the freedom of discretion over their child's education but I want to preserve my right to have discretion/freedom. The same way that it is unfortunate that there are assholes misusing their freedom of speech to spout annoying stuff but I wouldn't want to limit their freedom because that would mean I would be limiting mine.
2c) I feel it is more of a social responsibility more than a contract and even then you discretion on how to apply it (home schooling).
3) You're digging awfully deep just so you can find politics somewhere within the school system when you know full well that I meant politics being directly included in curriculum....
Perhaps, at some point, there was a prejudiced political anti-LGBT movement in the UK that forcibly removed LGBT representation in the books via legislation that I am not aware of, I dunno, you may be right. But if that did happen, I would not have agreed with that either. In fact, I would be much more strongly against that.
With this, I agree with you. I hope the kids are educated on the existence LGBT community as well. No arguments here. Our opinions simply differ on the method, not goal.
Last edited by DrDoomz - on 10 June 2019