Very true, I find a lot of women want the man to be prince charming basically but then they don't offer anything even remotely on the same level as the man. 

You know if you guys actually talked to women in real life as much about them in this thread you might all have girlfriends.

Need to learn something from our fearless leader.  Sometimes you just gotta go up and grab them by the pussy.  Not sure why I'm facing so many lawsuits now.

Better worse:  Imagine them actually reproducing.  I've saved this world from another Seth so far.

This is what I observed, I have no problem attracting women by my looks, now I'm no Micheal B. Jordan by any means but sometimes some woman find me attractive that are out of my league in terms of looks lol.

But as soon as I open my mouth or try to approach them they lose interest immediately. It's frustrating to the point where I have had a identity crisis in the last 2 or so years because I just don't know how to act to be taken seriously by people. I tried the 'I don't give a fuck' bad boy route but since it just isn't me it just came off as rude and I felt stupid afterwards. 

Maybe it's just my environment, when I travel abroad I have females actually approaching ME (!), so who knows only time will tell.

When i was younger my act was playing noninterested and that made some of them wanting to make me care about them(like it being a challenge), teasing and flirting also helps tons but make sure they like you before you start doing that.But yeah the "i dont give a fuck bad boy route" does work in a light version and if it does not looked forced on your behaviour:p

If you want someone to really connect with then just be you, and one day you might find someone that likes you because of what you really are.

I'm curious about the "I don't give a fuck" bad boy route you took, and what specifically you did. 

Well as long as you don't pull the face Michael B Jordan does in Creed then you shouldn't scare women. I will tell you this 8/10 men bat way above their average. It even causes baseball statisticians to scratch their heads lol

@Bold, do you walk funny? Do you have some crazy eye when you open your mouth to talk lol? Look in the mirror see if there is anything strange.

@Underline, maybe I don't know, perhaps women there want a broke ass black dude with a gun and car with hydrolic suspension. You mention that abroad females approach you, so perhaps maybe outside your small local environment it is worth giivng a shot

No, life is not all about materialism. - People seem to believe that... And with a single disaster, have lost everything... But life still goes on afterwards.

Donald Trump is not your president, The leader of Australia is Scott Morrison, Trump is irrelevant here.

@dark

Now that I am more rested, more alert and able to think.

You said you buy lotto tickets? Why? 99/100 times you won't win anything and the other 1 time it will be small, the odds are insane t win a jackpot. Yet time and time you fail again and keep buying. You buy cause you gotta be in it to win it.

Now apply that same logic to job hunting and women. Most times you will fail but eventually you will and somewhere.

Actually I don't think this is a good way to look at it. I think this is a better analogy: 

When people have a dependency on the lottery, they do it because they want their life to change, but they don't want to change it themselves. So they would rather keep playing the lottery over and over again, then create any meaningful change, because the lottery is not in their control. It's easy to blame luck when you lose, but it's easier to do nothing to win. 

Similarly, Dark Lord creates a thread, gets suggestions on how to better his life, but he doesn't want to go through with it. So he leaves his fate to luck, because it's easier to do nothing then to do something. And subconsciously, he probably relies on the fact that there's a 1% chance that his life will get better without him even trying. But of course, in reality that chance is less than 1%, and it's not healthy to rely on the lottery, in the same way that it's not healthy to do nothing and rely on fate to make your life better.

Now, you did say something similar to that when you said "you gotta be in it to win it", but in a lot of ways the lottery isn't a good analogy for this. Mainly because the lottery is a massive scam, and also because life is a lot more about improving through skill, and the lottery doesn't take skill to win it just takes luck. If you live in a first world country, the lottery will be less in your favor then the world itself will ever be. You just have to make a decent effort to try. 

Hope I don't sound like an asshole for correcting your analogy ... I just don't want Dark Lord to get the wrong idea, because as someone who has a very similar pessimistic mind to him, thinking of life as the lottery is actually a copying mechanism and an excuse to make yourself feel better.