I can’t really speak for your Autism, brah. Is it a crippling case or are you simply in “the spectrum”? I ask this because you sound very much able to express yourself online. I do know that there are cases of Autism where an individual is highly capable of expressing themselves through written/typed words but have an inability to express themselves through spoken words. But if all you’re saying is that you were diagnosed with Autism due to very poor socializing abilities, then I gotta say I used to have that problem and then some and I managed to become very succesful in dating later on in life (early 20s).
Regardless of the severity of your condition, I will have to say that your title is wrong (Shouldn’t it be “Men with crippling mental disabilities cannot socialize enough to be found attractive” rather than “Unattractive men = automatic losers”?). It is wrong because your premise is wrong. Men are not losers because they are unattractive. They are unattractive because they CHOOSE to be losers. Well, the vast majority of them anyway. There is the tiny percent that have truly crippling disabilities that cannot be helped. But they are the exception, not the rule. For the rest, it is because they are lazy and bitter (because of a sense of entitlement) and scared.
I was fat (300lbs at one point), deathly afraid of social interaction, had numerous crippling (but treatable) mental issues when I was younger, I had zero ability to talk to women, had no money (tho my parents had money, I was living away from them), no sports and spent most of my days inside my room playing video games and reading novels. I had no friends, I was relentlessly bullied (and, to my deep regret, I lashed out and became a bit of a bully myself to those smaller than me). Up until I was 17, that was my life. I turned it around within a few years. It was tough, but I got thru it. By my early 20s, I was living a very healthy dating life and I have to say it is because I decided to stop worrying about being attractive and just worked on myself (w/c, in turn, made me attractive). I am in my 40s now, and I gotta say, 90% of my suffering in my youth, I could attribute to myself. My own actions and inactions.
The same applies to the 99% of men out there. They’re not getting any because they chose this for themselves. Once they own up to that fact, they can take back their lives and actually stop being the “losers” they feel they are.
Last edited by DrDoomz - on 23 November 2018