If I don’t have much of a choice, I’d rather be a high class prostitute than paying someone else for sex. That’s the tea here.

There are plenty of disabled people still getting it without paying a cent. Sweaty... speak for yourself.

You always pay one way or another.

Conversely though there are others for whom dating sites are not effective.

But you can't say... oh X person is missing a leg so they can't get a date... do you know how many of the population of Earth is missing a leg? they could all hook up together and join in activities together like the 2 legged race!

Unless you think that people who have those disabilities also do not want to date other people who are in the same field as them.... conversely there are people out there who both don't give a rats ass what someone else looks like on the outside but instead loves them for the person they are, so wouldn't matter if they were hawkingesque in looks but a great personality. Just think.... no matter how bad you are at dating / confidence... there are a couple of million girls out there who are less confident than you and feel the exact same way.

Just gonna put it out there, any of the people who chat to each other on here, if you can do it without coming off like a complete bellend you can take those conversation skills and try your hand at applying them to something like a WoW RP server where you can anon chat to people with a shield up to hide your identity, scoring a few times in goldshire inn could do your confidence the world of good.

I have re-worded my post as I did not articulate myself well; I was by no means implying that if you're disabled you're a lost cause. Simply that for some people, online dating apps just don't work; they provide an opportunity to make contact with people, yes, but you still need to have certain skills and traits to be able to bed them. Conversely, with a sex worker, all you need is the money to pay them.

At the end of the day it comes down to what you want, if you were considering going off and getting some but wanna know if others would be fine with it, as a way to feel like you're not doing something morally wrong, I feel like you might have internal morale issues with the subject as such you'll likely overthink the encounter to the point where it almost isn't enjoyable for you during it, but you will almost certainly feel bad after you done it, both feeling bad about having spent cash to feel something you effectively can with your hand and a tissue and you'll overthink what the sex worker was thinking while they were with you (probably their taxes)

If it's a moral thing you have questions about in your own mind, remember, prostitution is effectively one of the oldest surviving professions, either from a point of view of paying for it with money or paying for it by bringing back dead animals to the cave to trade for sex.

Do trust me when I say this again though.... you know those people who don't have traits to get others into bed? there are MILLIONS of them, both male and female, it's not like girls don't like to have sex so even if you feel like you are the most awkward human to have ever lived, trust me in saying this, but there is 8 billion of us currently, there have been 10,000 years of other generations of us.... you are very unlikely to even be in the upper % of most awkward or lacking in skills to "bed them" even if you honestly thought that you were in the bottom 1% of having the skills to make it happen.... that means that you are in the same 1% as 42million other people, 21million who will be your gender of choice if you've limited yourself to one or the other! ( https://i.imgur.com/C1z7Wtd.jpg ) to put that in context, the awkward people at the bar who would likely find handfuls of spagetti in their pockets when they go to break the ice... could populate my country 10 times over... all awkwardly trying to laugh about something the other person is awkwardly trying to say... all while they both just think how good it would be to be banging instead.

When it comes to skills in anything Curl, I'll say this, like anything else.... practice practice practice. and it really doesn't matter where, try it online first, chatrooms/rp servers are great place to build a little confidence, and take that confidence and try it in the real world, worst thing that can happen is someone says they're not interested, that isn't the end of anyones world. there are literally plenty of fish!

I'm gonna bet you got her to wear your Nikes :D

You passed a very important test!

Sage advice though, STD's aren't fun, but much like everything else, they're common and nothing to be too embarrassed about really, go hit up a clinic and get your dick cleaned off and ready for more fun! Worst case scenario you're outta the game for 30 days after taking antibiotics.... or... you contract HIV , that can be slightly worse!

Oh I'm not considering seeing a prostitute myself, that wasn't why I made the thread, I was legitimately curious about other people's thoughts on the topic.