People suggested I should update on whats going on between Me and my Playstation friend, and I'm also going to give some feedback... and If you haven't read my thread about what happened this week, GO BACK AND READ IT. You won't know anything in this thread.

We haven't spoken in days after the arguement. Which is a day after I wrote the first thread. We started talking abit on Snapchat after she saw my Snapstory...    

On Snapchat: My snap story was "I feel so sad" with black background. She messaged me "What's the matter?" with my snap linked to the message. I simply replied "About that one day". She says "oh... I thought you were mad" I reply "I was... and now I'm sad". She says "I'm sorry it happened". I say "I don't like being angry at people, But it was one of my weaknesses that got me mad. I disconnected my mic because I didn't want you to hear me angry". She says "Whats ur weakness?". I say "Being 2nd best, 2nd choice,  I felt I wasn't good enough for you and you're my best friend on here." She didn't reply for like 5 minutes, then she says "Well you are important enough, you're the person I talk to/play with the most on PS4. It's just I haven't talked to the other guy in awhile and it was only gonna be for 30 mins... you are important to me". Reading that made me realize how much of a child I was being. Maybe its because I had bad experiences with so call "friends" in the past. I reply "Well last night I didn't see it that way. I was too shocked by the fact that you left to game with someone else when you told me to come online to play with you.. you're important to me too and I guess that's one of the reasons I got angry". She sends me a bitmoji of herself with a "I'M SORRY" above it. I thought it was cute and I reply "Its ok". She replies "that doesnt sound convincing" I say "Well I'm still bummed out about the whole thing. I'll be better later" she replies "good".

1 day later of not talking, I send her a message on Instagram and say  "hey, I miss you, Im sorry for being such a child" She replies right away saying "Hey, I miss you too, its okay. I probably would have acted the same way if I were you". We started talking all hour, before I fell asleep (it was 3am) we spoke normally as we did in the past

My thoughts: Me and her are childish... thats why we're friends. We're young. Im 19 and she's 18. But we don't act or look our ages. My Mom says I look 14 or 15 and she gets the same comments from her family . So we're not mature young adults who have started their professional careeers as Lawyers or Doctors or anything. I think it was both of our faults. She was mad when she told me she wanted to play with someone else and I got angry at that. So there's no really bad guys. Like yeah she should've invited her friend to play with us (THEY PLAYED THE SAME GAME ME AND HER WERE PLAYING) or she could've waited until I fell asleep, or said a nicer way on letting me go. I should've just let her and accept I won't always be 1st priority or should've grown up.     

And I read comments about people saying "Crushes, boyfriend, girlfriend" stuff like that. We're best friends right now and that's all you need to know and if there's more than friendship, I won't post my love life up in the air. So that settles it. The end. Thanks for positive feed back and advices! 

So when's the action?

This is cute because once you experience a real relationship and sex for the first time, these kind of things are not going to matter at all and you are going to read your own thread and say "lol hehe, wow" in the meantime just keep going and fix your relationship with your friend.

We don't care. This is a site about video games and video game sales, it's not a place for you to tell us your childish drama problems.

I care. T_T

I care.

Why didn't you just update the other thread?

You wouldn't have these problems with Xbox.

The same reason JK Rowling wrote sequels to Harry Potter.

He's making money off this shit? Damn. Time for me to share my love life on VGC. 

I'll be honest here and this is speaking from experience.

It is clear that you like her and she appears to like you. It is clear that both of you been over nurtured by your parents too much (same as most kids this generation it would seem) as these responses seriously match what a 10 year old would do.

Now moving on to the actual advice. I was never this immature at your age but I was in the "friend zone" as you. You mentioned you are friends, well that is all good. However clearly there is more there than that but both of you don't want to admit it. Well I had a friend of the female species like that for a good 5 years. We both like each other but we never talked about it to become a couple because all we thought about was lets finish school, play games and plenty of time blah blah blah.

Next thing, she moves away suddenly with her parents (she was 20) because her brother had a sporting opportunity. She was crushed as she didn't want move, Over time we slowly stopped talking as much to each other as back then it was expensive dialup and expensive long distance calls. A year later she had a boyfriend and the rest is history. We still chat every now and then and even talked about it once. When we see each other in person it is always "what if" look that we give each other and smile and pause for a second staring.

Now if we were totally open and honest to each other she probably could have stayed and we could have moved in together and provide that comfort that we had from our parents at the time. But I was younger than her at the time and figured there was some time for me to get my shit together. Who knows were we would be today.

The moral of the story is work out quickly what you both want before you regret it. Don't rely on your age to give you time to sort it out later.