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Most of you are more immature than you're making the OP out to be. Just because you're some big shot 20 something, doesn't give you a right to belittle anyone.

I can understand where you're coming from OP, when you give so much in a friendship it can be quite devastating to be second best. I would suggest, that you'd look back at the situation and maybe consider the fact that you may have exaggerated a bit. While I wasn't there and hence I'm not aware of the delivery, it sounds more like she just wanted to play with another friend who may or may not have been begging her to play with him/her for hours/days/weeks for all we know.

Imagine you where this "friend", wouldn't you be disappointed/jealous as well if this girl didn't even play with you at least once just because another friend of hers plays with her constantly.

My advice: Make new friends online and try to get a couple of buddies who you can play with sometimes. Also say sorry ;). And finally don't worry about it, if you guys talk constantly, you're not second rate. Look at all the movies and older people, they may go years without meeting their "Best Friend" but they're still the first friend they'll think about when the subject comes up, 'cause friendship has a much deeper meaning (I still don't know what it is though :/)
If you do have a crush on her, well that's another topic for another thread :P.



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Sounds like a typical case of jealousy.
Grab some courage and ask her out. Definitely do not continue doing what you did in your OP, that will turn her off big time as you being a needy/jealous type of person.

If she does go out with you. Some advice. Don't get upset if she wants to game with someone else sometimes. Just think of it as her going out with her friends some nights. Don't be controlling. People need to give each other some space once in a while.

Mr.Playstation said:
Most of you are more immature than you're making the OP out to be. Just because you're some big shot 20 something, doesn't give you a right to belittle anyone.                                   

The OP said they have been friends since 2015 when he graduated. Depending on if he means college or HS, he is anywhere from 21-25 years old.



irstupid said:

Sounds like a typical case of jealousy.
Grab some courage and ask her out. Definitely do not continue doing what you did in your OP, that will turn her off big time as you being a needy/jealous type of person.

If she does go out with you. Some advice. Don't get upset if she wants to game with someone else sometimes. Just think of it as her going out with her friends some nights. Don't be controlling. People need to give each other some space once in a while.

Mr.Playstation said:
Most of you are more immature than you're making the OP out to be. Just because you're some big shot 20 something, doesn't give you a right to belittle anyone.                                   

The OP said they have been friends since 2015 when he graduated. Depending on if he means college or HS, he is anywhere from 21-25 years old.

Sounds like you also don't know how to do Math (Or click on his profile)

Hs graduation: 17-18 depending on Month Born

Assuming graduation in March-June of 2015 it's been a year and change.

That makes him 19 or maybe barely 20.

His profile says 19 anyways,so it lines up



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Versus_Evil said:
Mr.Playstation said:
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well shit, next time i smack my fiancee for wanting to talk to her friends ill direct her to you for advice.

How is this comparable?

I gave him advice and told him he may (Being nice here) have exaggerated. I also gave him a different outlook from how the girl's friend might have seen it.

No need for a billion snarky replies, as most of the people here have been posting. Also it may have been an immature response on his part, for all we know he may have already realised that he was wrong and is putting himself down already.



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Mr.Playstation said:
irstupid said:

Sounds like a typical case of jealousy.
Grab some courage and ask her out. Definitely do not continue doing what you did in your OP, that will turn her off big time as you being a needy/jealous type of person.

If she does go out with you. Some advice. Don't get upset if she wants to game with someone else sometimes. Just think of it as her going out with her friends some nights. Don't be controlling. People need to give each other some space once in a while.

The OP said they have been friends since 2015 when he graduated. Depending on if he means college or HS, he is anywhere from 21-25 years old.

Sounds like you also don't know how to do Math (Or click on his profile)

Hs graduation: 17-18 depending on Month Born

Assuming graduation in March-June of 2015 it's been a year and change.

That makes him 19 or maybe barely 20.

His profile says 19 anyways,so it lines up

Ha, sorry was working on something at work that was dealing with the year 2018 and thus for some reason had that in my head.

But graduation you will find people are 18-19 versus 17-18. Starting their senior year, they are 17-18. But most are 18-19 by graduation. Young kids in school are like May birthdays, meaning they turn 18 just before graduation.

But either way, he is roughly 20, which was the point I was making. You were calling out people for being some big shot 20 year olds, when the OP is that same age. He is not some middle schooler or 12 year old.



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Versus_Evil said:
Mr.Playstation said:
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well shit, next time i smack my fiancee for wanting to talk to her friends ill direct her to you for advice.

Relationship goals right here  



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replace games to uhmmm "fuck"...
and revive to "make her cum".....

friend to "partner"...



 

Slade6alpha said:
You should look into cuckolding, I'd feel it's right up your alley.

omg i just LOL'ed at my work 



 

you know what just play it cool and message her in a day or two asking if she fancies a game, and just pretend nothing ever happend but when she wants to game or chill with other people just say cool se you in a day or two.

Then when everything is cool again ask her out for a drink somewhere, if she refuses dude you friend zoned if she says yeah Boom job done!



Is she your secret love and you felt jealous?