Why is the vote still so close? Why are people so concerned about what others do in their free time?
I grew up in the Netherlands, tried pot in high school for the first time. (You need to be 18 to buy, yet someone always has an older brother) It wasn't any different from trying the liquor from our parents liquor cabinet. Nobody got hooked, just a fun thing to do on the weekend. Plus it does wonders for mediocre movies or simply enjoying music.
I started buying it myself as a student in University. Just for fun, good stress relief, tons of laughs with friends. Nobody got hooked again. The amount of alcohol consumed at the fraternity club dwarfed any pot use. Pot was seen as a downer, get drunk and get loud instead.
When I started work I started to use it regularly in moderation to help me sleep. Used in small quantities it is still relaxing and moved my falling asleep time from 5AM back to a more survivable 12-1AM. However alcohol use still dwarfed it. Some recreational pot use while playing video games.
I used to go to a lot of clubs back then, and xtc was the perfect fit for trance music. Another harmless non addictive drug, as long as it hasn't been cut with speed or other crap. It actually had some great side effects, or rather the intended therapeutic benefits. It allowed me to open up and be more comfortable with myself among others. Without that experience I might still be living alone, closing myself off from society.
Unfortunately Amsterdam is pretty easy to get any kind of drugs in dance clubs and some of my friends, co-workers, started experimenting with cocaine. I didn't care for it, too risky imo, and indeed a few got hooked and eventually decided to leave Amsterdam to avoid further temptation.
I stopped using xtc after a few years (not continuously, just once in a while kinda drug, effects become less and less when you use regularly) since it became harder and harder to find safe quality stuff. Plus the recovery time only made it suitable for Friday night use anyway.
Then I met a girl (my wife) online, long story short, I moved to Canada in '02, which ended my pot use. No harmful effects or withdrawal or anything. Video games have taken over to get that entertainment 'high'. Which is fine, except they are a lot more addictive, more expensive and take more time. Hence my bedtime is back to 3am ish. PSVR is my new high, next to endorphins from working out, running or cycling. It really does make you happy. And is addictive too, I actually get withdrawal symptons if I don't work out every day :/ Never had that with pot...
I hardly ever drink anymore as it nearly always gives me a headache after. And I hate the smell of sweating alcohol out of my pores. I would probably buy pot again if it was freely available here. Used in moderation, like everything else, it's just a fun alternative way to relax. Focus on the now, get totally immersed in a movie or even a stupid reality show or dream along with some music. No harm in it and I've never broken a controller while stoned. (Plenty of mice, keyboards, controllers, etc have not survived my gamer rage, luckily age has mellowed me out)
Excuse my rambling. I don't see the harm in it, it's fun, not physically addictive, and could really use some legislation and ways to control dosage. Cup of special tea after dinner would be great once in a while.