Jpcc86 said:
Not getting into the - incredibly subjective - morality debate, I think the father should have a saying/responsibility in it. Yes, the mother is carrying it and yes, it's her body(?) but the father is just as responsible for the pregnancy. It shouldn't be treated just as women's rights issue, since it should involve both parents to begin with.
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I agree with you, but at the same time that is incredibly hard to enforce. Because ultimately who gets last say?
Can a woman be forced to abort if her partner doesn't want a child? (I know a woman who was forced to abort by her partner, who is now in her eighties and she is still devastated by it.)
Or in reverse forced to carry out a child she doesn't want? Be forced to face the consequences of a pregnancy to her well being and life even if she ultimately never wanted a child at that point in her life?
And then you get into incredibly hairy territory once you consider that if a pregnancy results from a rape, the rapist is the father and thus should have a say. Extending his power over a life and body, he forcibly took in the first place.
Pregnancys and abortion should not just be a 'womans issue' the father should have a say in it. But realistically it is the woman who has to bear the physical consequences of both pregnancy and abortion (just think about all the blotched illegal abortions that left women infertile in the 60s). I think that has to count for something too.