Soundwave said:
naruball said:
Who knows? Maybe they rape people? Seems pretty bad to me. Or maybe they go for the barely legal ones, who turn out to be 15 year olds. I have quite a few friends addicted to porn who even forced their gfs to have anal with them because of the obsession with it in porn (just giving an example of how it can do more harm than people are willing to admit).
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I don't believe there's been any appreciable rise in rape unless you can provide statistics, you think there wasn't rape in the pre-porn days?
So a few girls have had to take it up the pooper lol. It's not like they're going to die. Women probably benefit from porn as today there's likely far more men willing to go down on them, where 30-40 years ago for a lot of guys that was probably a "no way".
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Well I know another guy who had a one night stand with a girl and then tried to have anal with her, she said no, he insisted and forced her to take it and he basically raped her, as she never gave consent to that. The girl didn't say anything to the police since he wasn't arrested, but it was still rape. I don't know if you've had anal sex (and were on the receiving end) but I can tell you that if you don't do it properly it hurts like hell. So, yeah, she didn't die, but she was raped and that's pretty serious.
I believe (though I have no proof to back up my claim) that the more porn you watch, the more normal something seems in the end. So had he not watched that much porn, he probably wouldn't even think about having anal. As for the girls, one of them stopped her bf, but she was very upset and almost broke up with him. Porn surely makes things like anal, deepthroating, spanking, etc look cool and absolutely normal. So when a girl shows that she doesn't like them, there are problems in the relationship that may not have existed in the past.
Just my two cents.
As for myself, and I'm truly ashamed to admit this, I've had safe sex almost all my life. Then I started watching bareback porn and though it was stupid. But the more I would watch (and hear others talk about how different it is), the more normal it would seem so once I said "fuck it", tried it and loved it. Thnakfully I soon (happened 5 times) came to my senses, but my point is that without porn the thought of unprotected sex wouldn't have even crossed my mind. And I'm sure you know how dangerous unprotected sex can be.