SpokenTruth said:
PerturbedKitty said:
So I shouldn't worry about individuals facing inequalities based on the color of their skin?? lol wow. Absolutely incredible that people who say this stuff are the ones trying to say that they're the ones who are not racist. It sounds incredibly racist to me. You know, I'll just repeat: part of not being a racist is not taking somebody's skin color into consideration. I think people sometimes forget this very basic but crucial point haha
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That would work to a degree except one problem. You can't just take away race itself. It's part of who they are. Treating a black person as if they are white sounds logical and by itself would help a lot if more people did but it has its own problem in that you can't whitewash color.
The best policy is to recognize and understand the race, culture, religion, sex, etc...and approach people with that perspective in mind. It's harder work, no doubt. But it gives equal treatment while respecting who and what they are as a person rather than trying to sweep a part of them under a rug and ignoring it.
Racism is a negative prejudice. Respecting their race and circumstance is not.
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How does their race tell you anything about their individual circumstance? You keep making this distinction between individuals and collectives, yet you just contradicted it here by saying their race informs you of their circumstance and is something to be considered.
Dude you're literally telling me that I have to treat people different based on their race. Not once when I interact with people do I remind myself "ok, I'm speaking to an African American male right now" and you know what, I shouldn't ever have to think about that. Part of not being a racist is not considering someone's race when you're talking to them. Treating them as an equal, not as someone who is disadvantaged or in some way handicapped. I would hate it if somebody thought they had to talk to me differently because I'm white. Those are the kind of people I'd like to stay away from. I want to be around people who treat me as an equal and don't consider my race or gender, and youre taking it upon yourself to make a declaration for the entire black community.
What if black people dont want people to keep in mind that they're black and that they have this different experience that they cannot understand? Sure im sure that there are some black people who would love it if every white person they encountered would think this way, but I bet that most of them do not. I bet most of them do not want the people they are talking with to consider their race as some sort of significant factor in how they interact with them. I believe my fellow humans want to be treated and seen as equals.