This femenist/SJW shit is getting way out of hand

false equivalencies 

But feminists don't get those first 2 stats fudged. It's just that those stats are not the sociological problem they are focussing on. Their focus is on male-female interactions and not just in relation to violence and abuse, but also in relation to social and economic status. In terms of violence and abuse its about the fact that in the overwhelming majority of inter-sex violence and sexual violence the woman / girl is the victim, in the case of verbal abuse women are more often the victim too. There is no indication that feminists deny that male-male violence isn't relevant in regard to the overall prevalence of violence in society, or that women being verbally abusive to women is all harmless banter. It's just not the job of the feminist movement to address those issues directly. 

And as you say, few / no feminists think all men are rapists. But I think that one of the first things that will come into a woman's mind if she is alone on an empty the street and she sees a man walking towards her is "is this guy going to try to rape me." And it's the notion that this is a very prevalent thought in women's minds under such circumstances that leads to the "all men are rapists" concept. It's not a true statement when taken at literal face value, and it's not spoken as a true statement in that way, it is spoken as a contextual thought process.

Right, my bad, I meant to put Feminist, but I got carried away with all the gender pronouns. 

Except it's not, because all dumb actions have consequences.

If you're an attractive girl, don't go to parties alone and drink so much you can't properly say no, and also know to leave when others start to stop accepting no as an answer. And even then, understand that going to this party in the first place runs an infinitely higher risk of getting raped instead of just hanging out with friends.

Yes. They don't hate men, they just hate white men. There's a big difference. In western feministic narrative, it is white men and female all colours but white that you should spit on, because some people are more equal than others. And, sadly, this was no joke.

Worse than that. That was drawing a parallel between a self-inflicted harm (crashing while driving drunk) and being the victim of a heinous crime. It's a vile and disgusting comparison.

The problem is we should be aiming to live in a society where someone who has drunken or drugged themselves into almost total incapacity is guranteed to be safe from any criminal interefereance. Yet those who say there is some fault on the part of the victim in these situations seem to be saying that they are quite fine with a society where safety can't be assumed and so one cannot hold the violator to be 100% responsible for any act of violence rape or abuse of someone who is too drunk / drugged to be able to defend herself or even say no.

This is a joke right?

Ha.

Driving drunk isn't self-harm, it's putting oneself in harm's way. Just like being an attractive and drunk teenage girl around a bunch of drunk teenage boys.