I think the preorder numbers for PS4 and X1 are weird. The shares between the versions of Destiny and Watch dogs don't represent the share of the current install bases. Sure Sony is doing a lot of exclusive marketing for both but I doubt there are less X1 owners looking forwad to them. I don't think PS4 will get a much bigger sales boost from those games in US.
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