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Mirson on 21 January 2014
Dallinor said:

Sometimes though, people will flirt with others, but have no intention of getting with them. I've even done this myself from time to time. It's sometimes just fun to flirt with others. It can be entertaining, to laugh a bit, maintain eye-contact and pass a few compliments. However, if the person is awkward in social situations, they might not recognize the social cues that define the limited range of some flirting. It wouldn't be the first or last time someone reads too much into a casual smile, a wink or a laugh, as sometimes inner hopes can cloud judgement.

That said, reading what the OP has written,  I would still encourage him to go for it, as it could be a learning experience either way.

@Mirson- Do you know her name yet? Also, are you planning on asking her out then and there in the restaurant?

I know her name since I saw it on her nametag, and yes, but not preciously at the register. 



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NiKKoM on 21 January 2014

Just remember.. everybody crashes and burns once in a while but you have to take your chance... the worst thing that could happen is that you never eat that Chick-fil-a ever again...



 

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NintendoPie on 21 January 2014
NiKKoM said:
Just remember.. everybody crashes and burns once in a while but you have to take your chance... the worst thing that could happen is that you never eat that Chick-fil-a ever again...

That could be detrimental, though.

@OP; is there another Chick-Fil-A near you? If not, there's a high risk factor to this.



Gilgamesh on 21 January 2014

Your clearly interested in her so ask her out, her answer will be the answer to this thread.



pbroy on 21 January 2014

Lets just hope she doesn't find a new job or gets fired by then.

On a side note: I just remembered a funny little story where a pretty cute Asian girl asked me if I had the time. This happened at Taco Bell. She was doing the register taking my order. This was long ago when Funcoland first opened and I just got off from working there. I was in a pissy mood because all day they wanted me to try and sell freakin game cleaners. I wasn't in the mood to be joked around with. Anyways... So after taking my order she asks me if I had the time. Silly little girl didn't realize there was a freakin clock right up on the wall, right behind her. I told her "no, but the time is right up there." She says, "ohh, ok". She then runs off to get my food and talks with another girl and they both giggle. She then comes back with my food and proceeds to ask me if I have the time again. This time in a more meaningful tone. Now her and her friend are REALLY messing with me. I think to myself, 'what's wrong with this girl? She doesn't know how to read a clock.' Maybe so. So I pointed at the clock and said, "OK, your clock says 7:30." I then take my food and leave the counter just dumbfounded. She then proceeds to giggle with her friend again as I walk away. A spark then ran to my brow as it ignited a nerve.

What is wrong with girls and asking me for the time? I was at the mall a week before and two girls walked up to me, two hot cheerleaders from school. One of them asked me for the time, when she clearly had a watch on. So I grabbed her wrist and read it out to her. I chocked that one up as normal, due to cheerleader stupidity. This girl at Taco Bell on the other hand was Asian, supposed to be smart.

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Mirson on 21 January 2014
NintendoPie said:
NiKKoM said:
Just remember.. everybody crashes and burns once in a while but you have to take your chance... the worst thing that could happen is that you never eat that Chick-fil-a ever again...

That could be detrimental, though.

@OP; is there another Chick-Fil-A near you? If not, there's a high risk factor to this.

There's one five minutes away from this Chick-Fil-A. There are also three others scattered around town.

@pbroy, I noticed her since last year, but then she disappeared for weeks. Suddendly, she reappears, and I've been shot through the heart. I need a respirator cause I'm running out of breath...

Anyways, lol. But it happens to all of us at one point. We need some music for motivation.



Cobretti2 on 21 January 2014

it honestly doesn't matter if she is into you or not the point here is you like her. So go for it. Worst case she says no.



 

 

Pristine20 on 22 January 2014

The urge to troll was strong on this one...I resisted somehow.

Cobretti already made my point. It doesn't matter whether a girl is into you or not. You lose once you start even thinking about it. As soon as you feel something, go for it. There will always be a lot of nos before the yes but that's what makes the yes worth it.

Just my 2 cents.



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dsage01 on 22 January 2014
Mirson said:
NintendoPie said:
NiKKoM said:
Just remember.. everybody crashes and burns once in a while but you have to take your chance... the worst thing that could happen is that you never eat that Chick-fil-a ever again...

That could be detrimental, though.

@OP; is there another Chick-Fil-A near you? If not, there's a high risk factor to this.

There's one five minutes away from this Chick-Fil-A. There are also three others scattered around town.

@pbroy, I noticed her since last year, but then she disappeared for weeks. Suddendly, she reappears, and I've been shot through the heart. I need a respirator cause I'm running out of breath...

Anyways, lol. But it happens to all of us at one point. We need some music for motivation.


ASK HER OUT! That's all I got to say.



Dallinor on 22 January 2014
Mirson said:

I know her name since I saw it on her nametag, and yes, but not preciously at the register. 

If I were you, I would take your third encounter to first try and read her body language and reaction to you again. If you think it's positive again, chances are she does like you. I'd also just try to ask for her number, it's not as forward or as intimidating for both parties than asking her out. Perhaps even joke a little about it, maybe get talking then say "I'd like a sundae and your number" with a cheeky smile. See how that goes down. I wouldn't put yourself 100% out there, and definitely wouldn't ask her out at the the till.

I'm not saying that's the best thing to do, it would just be my approach. That way, even if she says 'I have a boyfriend' or she dismisses the request with laughter or a joke, you've tested the waters but haven't been burned. Just smile, say goodbye and carry on. If you do get the number though, make sure to play it cool, give her some eye contact, smile, use her name and tell her you'll chat later. Important: don't ring or txt her 2 minutes or even 2 hours after walking out of the place. Wait until the evening.

Anyway, good luck!