Ok, ok, fixed it. You're pretty grumpy for a rainbow colored poney you know.

I consider the rainbow pony medication.

Well, have in mind that this is my opinion. This kind of relationship is not going anywhere.

In my mind, a couple want to be more with other, learn with other, leave everyone to be with the chosen one. Yet, you and you girl are constantily trying to fill the gap with porn and strip clubs. And now, when do you try to trace a line about that, its hard, because you are not used to avoid certains thing for her, you just go and satisfy yourself, and she is just saying she will do the same.

A relation need to have respect. And respect involve you changing because of her, and her changing because of you.

So, what should you do? First, think about you really want with this girl. If just want someone to haging around, so let it be, soon or later this will end, if not because of that, will be because any other thing. If you want something more serious, like family and kids, so you need to change. You need to be the kind of person that you want be with. This really bother you that much? It's not like you had eyes only for her too. But if you fell that this kind of behavior ill affect your relation, so you will need to make changes at you first.

Second, talk to her. But not ask about that. Talk about what she wants with you to. If she want something serious too, then ask about what on you is bothering she. Girls act by revenge. A lot. They will always try to make you fell the same pain that they felt. Probably she just there, waiting for you reaction. Woman always try to know if you are a worthy man. If you will fell apart at every bump on the road. If you are trustworthy at something. If you are a man, with some high principles and values, or just a guy. If you can offer safety for her at someway. So you need to be serious with her, say that you are open to change yourself if she are open to change too herself too. That is not healthy for any of you two be exposed to another person on a sexual way, if you intend to only have sex with each other for the rest of your life. But remember, this involve you looking at another girls too!

She can(and probably will) laugh at your face, say that you are overreacting, that you are a jerk, that is just silly. But if really want something above mediocrity, a really great relationship, you need to more that you are today. The relationship can even fell apart forever, but if this really bothers you that much, you need to face the consequences. Maybe even after that anothers relations can fell apart too. But if on any of then there is love, that one will prevail.

Be like this is not easy, you will fail a lot, and you girl too. You can just forget this, like any other guy. Just enjoy, like all the guy around here. Be a guy or be a man, its up to you.

OP whatever you do, DO NOT SHOW ANY SORT OF INSECURITY. The moment you show any sort of insecurity on anything about yourself, say bye bye to your appeal as a man. If she wants to go to strip club, say you wouldn't like the idea but don't turn it into any sort of things about how you're worried she would cheat on you etc. If she insists, let her be. If you get the chance, go yourself.

Women don't like clingy, insecure and strict men. Be a gentleman but not a nice guy. You should know how to enjoy your life as a man, the moment you cling on to your girlfriend or start to imply that she is everything you have, will be the moment you'll begin to lose her.

Be sexy, be naughty, be playful but don't be a jerk. In short, don't be boring, let her see a carefree side to you, you GOT TO SHOW THAT THERE ARE OTHER OPTIONS FOR YOU TOO and that the relationship goes both ways. 

So you mean to say you have made her orgasm once every 15 minutes for 8 hours straight? No. Sure, she probably does squirt, but she would be bleeding and sore for a month after that.

30 in eight hours is one every sixteen minutes actually. So she could have a cigarette after each orgasm on the spare minute.

This one is easy my friend.  Simply set the standard and don't go to one or want to go to one yourself.  If she values you she will rise to your level, if she doesn't she's not worth your time.

You have every right to not enjoy the image of her in a room with a naked man, just as it is fine with her being uneasy with you being in the presence of a naked woman.  And quite often more than just clothes removal happens in such scenarios.  Personally, I'm not overly uptight about the strip club thing; I don't need to go myself, I would rather my GF doesn't go, but it's not the end of the world either way.

If I were you I wouldn't put too much thought into it, she's probably not putting a tonne of thought into it herself.  She's not being hypocrytical, which is good.  The scenario may never come up.  And you definitely shouldn't worry about her wanting the guy or another guy or whatever... that's not really the issue here.  A good portion of male dancers are actually gay anyway - stripping's all about the visual and the experience of getting riled up with her girlfriends.  Just let it go, set the standard in yourself that you are not going to strip clubs and cross the bridge if it ever comes along.  As long as you have been "above" strippers yourself, she may even go with her friends but then feel guilty, not drink and ask you to pick her up early.

Of greater concern is that she's lying about how much she's coming... you need to sort that shit out.

You're pretty insecure, still if you are that insecure there is probably a reason for it. Just be straight with her and say that she knows if she did anything beyond looking at the show they're putting on that it's over, Gotta be direct before something happens so that she knows you wont stand for it.

Also when I picture your girlfriend all I can think of is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLnWf1sQkjY

Women don't orgasm the way men do.  It's not one big "OOOHHHH" every time.  They can have several orgasms in the span of a minute.  It's also a fallacy that women take some miraculous length of time or large penis size to get off.  In truth, all it takes to get off is giving a crap about what you're doing for her.  

30 times in 8 hours is incredibly manageable. And very likely. 

30 full squirting orgasm though... Not likely.

on this topic, honestly, if you don't have the trust to tell this to her yourself, you're not right for each other.  If she makes you feel insecure, you're not right for her.  If you're THAT good in bed, why would she cheat?  And if you're that good you'll have no problems finding another woman.  

You're in trouble if the dancing bear shows up...