sm64, mk64, loz:oot, banjo: I would rate those games 8/10. (I used a strategy guide  for zelda, it was a tough challenging game, still a good game).
goldeneye, ISS 98/64, diddy kong racing: I would give them 9/10, the best games I played on the n64.

Why you give star fox 64 a 1/10. Do you have a grudge with that franchise ? 

why i shouldnt?

slippy was so annoying in star fox 64, I would give it a 6/10, it was an ok game but nothing special. It was one of the first games that used rumble, a feature that has now been used in most console systems since then.

Banjo kazooie

Donkey Kong 64

Diddy Kong racing

everything from rare

You need to play the best games already released in any platform.

+ Mario 64 is the best 3D Mario ever created
+ Starfox 64 is the best Starfox ever created
+ Godeneye 007 is the best shooter ever created
+ Zelda: OoT is the best Zelda ever created

You can't go wrong.

no!!playing emulator on pc.thinking of buying 3ds so trying out some simmilar games like on the 3ds.

Well not all space shooters game are bad. Beside star fox adventures don't have any of those space shooters segment you mentioned. You should try that instead. But of course this is a n64 recommendation thread i shouldn't go off topic

Anyway here are some n64 games that you really need to play especially coming from a developer called Rare

- Jet Force Gemini

- Donkey Kong 64

- Conker Bad Fur Day ( if you like violent game then this game is for you )

- Banjo Kazooie

- Banjo Tooie

- Perfect Dark

- Goldeneye ( this game is extremely hard though just warning you )

- Castlevania Legacy Of Darkness ( underated game and a really good one )

Can't recommend any zelda game on n64 though since you can get a better version of it on 3DS,Gamecube,Wii & Wii U