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Rainbow Yoshi on 28 August 2012
adriane23 said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:

So recently I met this girl through a best mate then we got talking exchanged numbers, and added each-other on social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter. We talked everyday and it was going so well, she seems really interested in me and then all of a sudden she just randomly ignores me. Did I not make the move, or is she just toying with my emotions?  I just don't get it and I'm wondering if I should just text her once more and see if she replies.

How long were you in touch with her before she started ignoring you and how long has it been since she last talked/messaged you? There could be a few reasons for her lack of contact.

1 - She's now interested in someone else, and hopes you'll just stop trying to contact her.

2 - She's goin through some personal shit.

3 - You waited to long to make your move and she's no longer interested,

4 - She's a dick tease and probably never knew her father. <<

Couple of weeks I think. 2 and 4 are out of the question, she told me a lot about her personal problems and she knows her father as well. Out of those maybe 3 could be right.



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Moren on 28 August 2012

Stalked her to suicide again, huh?



ultima on 28 August 2012
Rainbow Yoshi said:
HulkWasRight said:
How long has it been since she last communicated with you?


Almost two days ago (properly talked). 

Holy shit, you're blowing this out of proportion man. How did you get so attached from texting anyway? How old are you guys if you don't mind me asking?

Like pretty much everyone else in this thread, I also think you should ask her to hangout. If she rejects you, then fuck it, she's not worth it. Don't let them play around with you like a toy. Some girls are like that: you show a sign of weakness, and you'll be her proverbial punching bag for as long as you stay.



           

Rainbow Yoshi on 28 August 2012
ultima said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:
HulkWasRight said:
How long has it been since she last communicated with you?


Almost two days ago (properly talked). 

Holy shit, you're blowing this out of proportion man. How did you get so attached from texting anyway? How old are you guys if you don't mind me asking?

Like pretty much everyone else in this thread, I also think you should ask her to hangout. If she rejects you, then fuck it, she's not worth it. Don't let them play around with you like a toy. Some girls are like that: you show a sign of weakness, and you'll be her proverbial punching bag for as long as you stay.


Yeah, I did, waiting for a reply on that. And I'm 15 and she's 14.



ultima on 28 August 2012
Rainbow Yoshi said:
ultima said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:
HulkWasRight said:
How long has it been since she last communicated with you?


Almost two days ago (properly talked). 

Holy shit, you're blowing this out of proportion man. How did you get so attached from texting anyway? How old are you guys if you don't mind me asking?

Like pretty much everyone else in this thread, I also think you should ask her to hangout. If she rejects you, then fuck it, she's not worth it. Don't let them play around with you like a toy. Some girls are like that: you show a sign of weakness, and you'll be her proverbial punching bag for as long as you stay.


Yeah, I did, waiting for a reply on that. And I'm 15 and she's 14.

Oh I see, that explains it. Good luck mate!



           

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Rainbow Yoshi on 28 August 2012
morenoingrato said:
Stalked her to suicide again, huh?


Not really, she started a lot of the conversations we had.



adriane23 on 28 August 2012
Rainbow Yoshi said:
HulkWasRight said:
How long has it been since she last communicated with you?


Almost two days ago (properly talked). 

Soooo going by your reply to my post and this one......you've only been talking to her for a couple of weeks and it's only been two days since she's last talked to you????? How many times have you tried to contact her since she last contacted you? If it was more than twice, you're doing way too much. Let her get in touch with you and don't worry about it.



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Rainbow Yoshi on 28 August 2012
adriane23 said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:
HulkWasRight said:
How long has it been since she last communicated with you?


Almost two days ago (properly talked). 

Soooo going by your reply to my post and this one......you've only been talking to her for a couple of weeks and it's only been two days since she's last talked to you????? How many times have you tried to contact her since she last contacted you? If it was more than twice, you're doing way too much. Let her get in touch with you and don't worry about it.

Erm, twice. Okay but I'll only wait a week, otherwise I just won't bother any longer.



d21lewis on 28 August 2012

Sounds like you got "Hatmoza'd".

Hatmoza'd: (Verb) Origin E- when you are in love with a girl but her attention is taken by a cooler, more attractive guy (more than likely, Hatmoza himself). The subject is normally quite friendly and is everything that you want to be. Example: "I thought I had a shot with this girl but then some guy totally Hatmoza'd me!"

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/hatmoza'd?s=t

Either that or women are fucking crazy. One or the other.



WiiBox3 on 28 August 2012
Rainbow Yoshi said:
NiKKoM said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:
Should I text her once more or just leave it?


When was your last text? and more importantly what did it say?


Me: How was your day? 

*no reply*

Me: Hmmm, is there a chance I'm texting you too much?

Her: lol XD (WTF your texts were never this brief before)

Me: May I remind you, it's because you're awesome :P (We did say to eachother that we were both awesome not long before) 

*no reply*

 

If you ask a girl if you are"texting too much" you are. You are looking clingy and desperate. Until you are dating a girl, try not to text them very much at all. It is best to try and do most of your interactions face to face. Be cocky in a funny way. Check out.. David Deangelo or Doc Love. These two give some very good advise on how to treat women to build interest and keep it.

 

Rainbow Yoshi said:

Yeah, I did, waiting for a reply on that. And I'm 15 and she's 14.

Relationships start and end fast at that age. Don't let it bother you. But act fast with girls, if you wait too long you will be friendzoned.