I watched the VGA's this morning. To me, it looks like Joker was going to create an "Arkham World" if he didn't win but since he won his category, we're safe. Looks like it was just a joke to me.
As for Batman vs. Spider-Man--The Spider-Man game on the PS1, N64, and Dreamcast was probably the best super-hero game released up to that point. It did everything right. The following games were decent but didn't live up to that standard set by the first (only talking 3D, not Nes, Atari, Genesis, etc.) one. Batman has had some good games (Nes, Snes, and Vengeance) in the past but lately, his games have been GotY calibre. In the gaming world, Batman is the king of super-heroes.
Look at that trailer for the new Spidey game. Giant robots. Really? And it's based on a movie. And Spidey still has that red stripe on his pants that we've all been complaining about. That game is going to be garbage.
As for movies, Batman ('89), Batman Begins, Batman Returns, and the Dark Knight are epic. Spidey 1 and 2....hell, I even enjoyed Spider-Man 3 were great fun but c'mon. Doc Ock's tentacles that had personality? The way Sandman got his powers? Convenient amnesia? They were great comic book movies but horrible movies in general. Batman has had some shitty movies but he's had more good movies, too.
And, in comics. The industry is doing pretty badly. Digital is their last hope and charging $4 an issue for a 22 page story, I don't see comics surviving in their past or current form. Sad, since I grew up loving comics. Marvel and DC have been going head to head forever with Marvel coming out on top more often in terms of popularity and sales. But as an avid reader of both brands and a fan of the now defunct Wizard: The Guide to Comics, let me say that Spider-Man's comics have been trash for quite a while (or at least until 2007 when I just stopped reading comics in general).
Batman's story archs have been more compelling, in my opinion. The industry seemed to agree, too. Marvel was doing better than DC because of great stories like Civil War and Secret Invasion--not because of Spider-Man who was busy making deals with the Devil (true story!), poorly revamping characters, and fighting vampires. Batman was facing his formerly dead ward, facing Black Mask for control of Gotham City, and coming to grips with having a son. And Batman's sales WERE above Spider-Man even though Marvel as a whole was outselling DC.
Long story short: Spider-Man