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I want an "Asexual Day" where people parade fully clothed and avoid any physical contact. :P



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Mr Khan said:
Player1x3 said:
 


Thinking white people shouldn't be proud of thier history and heritage isnt racist? Ok than

Not that they shouldn't be proud of their history, but that they should especially celebrate it. I mean, the whole world today is pretty much run through by the achievements of White Men. You celebrate what is outside that, because it is less common, in terms of cultural impact

Though the White Men built their glory on the achievements of a lot of other races, given Chinese gunpowder, Arab or Persian (forget which) compasses, astronomy, and math


So we shouldnt feel good abour our race because we are too influental on the world? You just gave another big reason why WE SHOULD celebrate and promote the pride of our heritage and race.



Seece said:
Player1x3 said:
Seece said:
Player1x3 said:
sapphi_snake said:
The Fury said:
sapphi_snake said:

It would be like whites celebrating their 'whiteness'. Considering that even the person's who want to organize this are doing it to get back at gays for having so-called privileges that straight people don't, I think it's safe to say this will be the most homophobic event of the year.

It's a double standard if you word it like that. The idea of white people celebrating their identity would be laughable in our 'western' world but yet we do allow black people to celebrate their identity. 

Although I do agree that a parade of this nature just seems a bit pointless and the reasons for having it are wrong.

Because black people were enslaved and degraded for centuries in this western world. They were made to believe that bacause they're black they're worth less than whites, and that they're not even actual humans. White people do not need to be reminded of their histury and 'achievements' through a special event, when they're essentially the mainstream.


Wow, I didnt know you were so racist

That's not racist, it's common sense.


Thinking white people shouldn't be proud of thier history and heritage isnt racist? Ok than

Indeed.


But doesnt that mean blacks and other races also shouldnt be proud of thier heritage and orgin? Oh, wait I forgot, we are the evil slave owning ones, and thus we should feel inferior and bad and make them feel superior, right?



Player1x3 said:
Seece said:
Player1x3 said:


Thinking white people shouldn't be proud of thier history and heritage isnt racist? Ok than

Indeed.


But doesnt that mean blacks and other races also shouldnt be proud of thier heritage and orgin? Oh, wait I forgot, we are the evil slave owning ones, and thus we should feel inferior and bad and make them feel superior, right?

Honestly no point in explaining it, most people just get it without needing any sort of explanation.



 

Excellent news! We heterosexuals have met oppression for so long. It's about time we stand up and fight for our rights!

Hopefully we will see the discrimination against males get some attention as well!



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sapphi_snake said:

@Farmageddon:

1) It's clear their protest is not against equality between the orientations but, on the contrary, how in defending minorities we can end up giving them privileges which may actually be unfair to the majority.

"I have no trouble coexisting with gays as long as their behavior is normal."

This line says it all. What exactly is 'not normal' about gays? I assume he means their gayness. Regardless, it's clear this guy's a homophobic biggot. I'm also curious what are all these amazing 'privileges' gays get?

2) Sure they're trying to remedy a situation, but there can be such a thing as going too far and overly-victimizing the minorities.

The only people who 'overly-victimize' minorities are the groups who persecute them.

3) I mean, just remember it's not even like most brazilians (or south americans for that matter) would agree with this for all you know

I'm pretty sure most South Americans would, considerign that South America is a fundementalist Catholic region.

4) and that the backwards country is the one which has the single biggest gay/lesbo/etc parade in the world :P

It's now also gonna celebrate gay bashing day, so it can't possibly be very progressive.



1) I read that as he not being confortable with excessively affeminate men or guys hooking up (granted, i may be reading it wrong). I realise you'll probably tell me "well that's homophobic" but it's in this sense that i think the whole thing is overblown.

I sure as hell am not confortable with those things, but I don't ostracise homosexuals. If I was in a position to give someone a job, I wouldn't take that into account, etc.

For the most part, I can coexist with gays with no problems (as he puts) but I might rather not be around some extreme examples, and I see absolutely nothing wrong with that, no one should be forced to like something about someone, all we have to do is respect. Not being confortable and disrespecting are two very different things.

And these extreme cases are not off-putting because of their sexual orientation. I'm sure lots of people wouldn't want to be around extreme machos, or hippies, or beggars. Actually, those groups are probably much worse off than gays in public acceptance. It's just about being too different, so spining that as homophoby kind of misses the point in many cases in my opinion.

Hell, I have long hair and don't shave on top of being an atheist. It's more likely I'd be denied a job than them, yet you don't see me parading :P

2) Great answer if you are going for effect, poor answer if you want a decent discussion :P

It's ridiculous to believe no one ever plays victim or exagerates their suffering, and it's even more ridiculous to believe a person is different in that simply because it's part of a minority.

3) And I'm pretty sure I know Brazil (and specially the metropolitan areas, which are the subject matter) a lot better than you do. Really, I believe you to be mostly rational, so tell me why are you telling me how my country is? Fundamentalist Catholic? You got to be kidding me. Catholics here are not very observant at all, mainly unatending and mostly just catholic on paper and holidays. Actually, most are hereticaly open. I mean it, it's not very hard to find so called catholics who are also adepts of spiritism, candomblé and so on. So much so that the fastest growing new church incorporates elements of those religions.The few actual Catholics are mostly old people, and even these are warm to gays.

The more fervorous adepts are the ones on the smaller denominations (a mixed bag of really religious but pretty accepting and foundamentalist people) and some people on things like Igreja Universal, of which I was talking earlier. the big picture, anyway (and here it's important to distinguish the more actually adept north and the center to south, which is where São Paulo is and what I'm talking about) shows a people where most denominate themselves something but go by life without really taking any of that into account.

They may be theoretically against homosexualism (note I didn't type homosexuals) but the huge majority doesn't really discriminate in any significant way.They wouldn't deny a job or avoid talking to gay people, for example.

That's not to say gays face no problems because of their orientation, but the situation here is not nearly as bad as you seem to believe it is. The population at large is pretty acceptant. If there are problems they stem from a small MINORITY which encompasses things from neo-nazi types to religious foundamentalists. Guess what, these people are not changing their minds because of a parade. Quite the opposite.

4) Sure, gay bashing day. You're pretty quick to judge, aren't you? Look, IF that's really what it turns out to be I bet you it will be heavily criticized (by the people at large, not just homosexuals) and find little adherence beyond the group promoting it. It will backfire dearly, and that's assuming it even actually passes.



Seece said:
Player1x3 said:
Seece said:
Player1x3 said:


Thinking white people shouldn't be proud of thier history and heritage isnt racist? Ok than

Indeed.


But doesnt that mean blacks and other races also shouldnt be proud of thier heritage and orgin? Oh, wait I forgot, we are the evil slave owning ones, and thus we should feel inferior and bad and make them feel superior, right?

Honestly no point in explaining it, most people just get it without needing any sort of explanation.


Most people choose to stay quiet on the matter in the fear of being labeld as racists and and fasicst by  ''politcally correct people'' like yourself and sapphi



Player1x3 said:
Seece said:
Player1x3 said:
Seece said:
Player1x3 said:


Thinking white people shouldn't be proud of thier history and heritage isnt racist? Ok than

Indeed.


But doesnt that mean blacks and other races also shouldnt be proud of thier heritage and orgin? Oh, wait I forgot, we are the evil slave owning ones, and thus we should feel inferior and bad and make them feel superior, right?

Honestly no point in explaining it, most people just get it without needing any sort of explanation.


Most people choose to stay quiet on the matter in the fear of being labeld as racists and and fasicst by  ''politcally correct people'' like yourself and sapphi

I didn't say you were racist? I wouldn't say I was PC either.



 

Seece said:
Player1x3 said:
Seece said:
Player1x3 said:
Seece said:
Player1x3 said:


Thinking white people shouldn't be proud of thier history and heritage isnt racist? Ok than

Indeed.


But doesnt that mean blacks and other races also shouldnt be proud of thier heritage and orgin? Oh, wait I forgot, we are the evil slave owning ones, and thus we should feel inferior and bad and make them feel superior, right?

Honestly no point in explaining it, most people just get it without needing any sort of explanation.


Most people choose to stay quiet on the matter in the fear of being labeld as racists and and fasicst by  ''politcally correct people'' like yourself and sapphi

I didn't say you were racist? I wouldn't say I was PC either.


Well, I know YOU didnt say I was racist, maybe I wass generalazing too much. But I am sure if the person like sapphi thinks straight pride is homophobic than h e/she also thinks white pride is racist.



Player1x3 said:
Seece said:

I didn't say you were racist? I wouldn't say I was PC either.


Well, I know YOU didnt say I was racist, maybe I wass generalazing too much. But I am sure if the person like sapphi thinks straight pride is homophobic than h e/she also thinks white pride is racist.

It is though, it's not main goal wouldn't be to celebrate white peoples goals or aims or w.e it'd be to outcast black people. That isn't the aim of say the opposite. Black pride (if there were such a thing) wouldn't be for the purpose of being racist or w/e against white people, it would be to celebrate black history.

It's pretty black and white, excuse the pun.