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PhoenixKing on 27 March 2011
Rath said:

Get yourself a girlfriend who is not this lady.

I disagree with the people saying cut contact with her, friends should remain friends and your feelings for her will most likely fade with time.



Is that what happened with you? Did the feelings eventually fade once you got a girlfriend?

I should, yeah, but I feel like I'd be doing a disservice to the person I was dating because I would still want to be with the girl I'm in love with, y'know? That doesn't feel right to me. Maybe dating for 'fun' but I don't really count that as a relationship.



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JGarret on 27 March 2011

The question is...how do you get out of the friend zone?...you have to get her to stop seeing you as an 'assexual' male, but I guess it´s not easy, it´s not something that can be done overnight.

You said you don´t want to cut contact...I think you should...a little, but not completely.

Do you work out?...that could help things...also, do not always be there for her, be more busy, don´t keep complimenting her for everything, leave it to her female and "assexual" male friends.



Slimebeast on 27 March 2011
sad.man.loves.vgc said:

Stop seeing her and you will feel better... sometime.

lol



RageBot on 27 March 2011

GFTOW.



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SnesTea on 27 March 2011

Dammit, where is trashleg when you need her?

This paragraph removed for trolling.

"Hell, maybe I'm not in love? I just want this person to be happy regardless of if they ever recognize my feelings for what they are. I just want her to be happy in life.... sighh"

I was told this by...someone. And it's true. If you can't picture yourself being happy with others, you most likely can. It happened with me. Just talk to her less, be her friend. If she doesn't want that, screw it. Don't let yourself be hurt by a girl that doesn't even want you. However, if she does want you (OP implies she doesn't) then get with her ASAP unless distance is an issue. But probably not.



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oldschoolfool on 27 March 2011

aleast you talk to a girl,I can't even get that. 



Kirameo on 27 March 2011

The sooner you realise that you are in love with a fictional image of her, the easier it will be to move on, I guess...



 

PhoenixKing on 27 March 2011
Kirameo said:

The sooner you realise that you are in love with a fictional image of her, the easier it will be to move on, I guess...



Um, dude, I would only be in love with a fictional image if I didn't know her well or didn't even talk to her. I believe I mentioned before, she was just a friend, then I started hanging out and talking to her for quite some time and I fell for her. Now she's onmy mind all the time, not this image I have of her, but of the things she does that make me want her so much.



Kirameo on 27 March 2011
PhoenixKing said:
Kirameo said:

The sooner you realise that you are in love with a fictional image of her, the easier it will be to move on, I guess...



Um, dude, I would only be in love with a fictional image if I didn't know her well or didn't even talk to her. I believe I mentioned before, she was just a friend, then I started hanging out and talking to her for quite some time and I fell for her. Now she's onmy mind all the time, not this image I have of her, but of the things she does that make me want her so much.


Well, then there's nothing you can do and you should just let time wash away those feelings. It will eventually happen.



 

PhoenixKing on 27 March 2011
Kirameo said:
PhoenixKing said:
Kirameo said:

The sooner you realise that you are in love with a fictional image of her, the easier it will be to move on, I guess...



Um, dude, I would only be in love with a fictional image if I didn't know her well or didn't even talk to her. I believe I mentioned before, she was just a friend, then I started hanging out and talking to her for quite some time and I fell for her. Now she's onmy mind all the time, not this image I have of her, but of the things she does that make me want her so much.


Well, then there's nothing you can do and you should just let time wash away those feelings. It will eventually happen.

Did that happen to you?